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The Pact Continued - 2021 WILL be our year!

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SS123456 · 07/12/2020 13:31

Just starting us up a new thread 😁

@Rotagilla
@kirinm
@whambam89
@Sansa87
@MrsB2019x

Who have I missed??

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kirinm · 10/02/2021 11:00

Oh @whambam89 I'm sorry. Are you going to go now?

Sansa87 · 10/02/2021 11:21

@whambam89 holding your hand! We are all there with you.

MrsB2019x · 10/02/2021 11:53

Sending you lots of love @whambam89, hope all is okay 💖

whambam89 · 10/02/2021 13:36

Thanks ladies, I was working until 1 (and don't really want them to know) so just come home to get some comfier clothes on and grab some food then will head over... I don't think it's an emergency as my HCG levels are obviously quite low because the lines aren't strong x

SS123456 · 10/02/2021 13:41

I'll be thinking of you @whambam89 , please let us know how you get on x

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kirinm · 10/02/2021 13:43

@whambam89

Thanks ladies, I was working until 1 (and don't really want them to know) so just come home to get some comfier clothes on and grab some food then will head over... I don't think it's an emergency as my HCG levels are obviously quite low because the lines aren't strong x
Don't let A&E fob you off though. Make sure you at least get two sets of bloods taken (I mean, make sure you can get a second lot done because presumably they'll do one today).
MrsB2019x · 10/02/2021 14:29

Good luck lovely @whambam89 xx

whambam89 · 10/02/2021 14:46

@kirinm they rang up to gaenae and apparently I wasn't told to come in, I was only told to go to a&e if the pain got worse otherwise I was to wait until Monday... I said if that was the case then surely an appointment would have been made for me Monday and it hasn't been 🙄 long story short I ended up crying at the triage lady and waiting for gaenae to see me, even though she's "very busy right now" i.e... doesn't really want to see me

MrsB2019x · 10/02/2021 15:04

@whambam89 How stressful already, no need for that! You’d think with your history they’d be more compassionate! Hope gynae are more helpful x

kirinm · 10/02/2021 15:24

Urgh! I'm sorry you're having to deal with that shit too @whambam89
for people in a caring profession, a lot of doctors, nurses and midwives can often come across as the exact opposite. Given you've had an ectopic already I don't think waiting 5 days is acceptable. I hope the wait isn't too long xx

whambam89 · 10/02/2021 15:37

@kirinm if they'd just told me to go in on Monday I'd have happily waited until then but considering they told me to go to a&e 🙄 still not been seen by gynae but have had my bloods done and a cannula put in so that was fun... Just glad they've done my bloods so we can hopefully get somewhere with it

kirinm · 10/02/2021 16:52

[quote whambam89]@kirinm if they'd just told me to go in on Monday I'd have happily waited until then but considering they told me to go to a&e 🙄 still not been seen by gynae but have had my bloods done and a cannula put in so that was fun... Just glad they've done my bloods so we can hopefully get somewhere with it[/quote]
Ah it's all so shit. Sorry you're having to go through this all again x

whambam89 · 10/02/2021 17:42

So apparently my HCG levels are that of a "not pregnant" person and they can't explain the positive tests or the right sided pain 🤨 I've attached a pic with Saturday and yesterday's test on... They're not just positive but they're getting darker and I don't understand how that can be because of anything but HCG? So they won't repeat my bloods or see me again

The Pact Continued - 2021 WILL be our year!
MrsB2019x · 10/02/2021 18:17

They must be dodgy tests or something, not that that’s helpful ☹️ What an ordeal. Hopefully you can have a restful evening tonight x

kirinm · 10/02/2021 18:21

Hmmm. That's really strange. Did you use the other clear blue? I guess you just need to keep an eye on things and maybe test again in a week and see where things are.

Sansa87 · 10/02/2021 18:57

I’m so sorry @whambam89

That doesn’t make sense. I know indents, and shadows etc happen, but that is literally getting darker. That’s not two indents.

SS123456 · 11/02/2021 08:05

@whambam89 is it worth taking a frer to see what that shows? I'm sorry you've had such an awful time ❤️

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whambam89 · 11/02/2021 08:23

Thanks ladies, I think I'm just going to give it a week and test again. She said it could be a manufacturing fault but again, that doesn't explain them getting darker so I'm none the wiser really although slightly relieved that my bloods didn't show pregnancy

kirinm · 11/02/2021 14:42

My period is doing that very annoying thing of being a day later than expected so you get your hopes up a little even though you had a BFN at 12dpo.

I'm pretty sure I'm due on today but nothing yet. Normally posting something like this triggers AF to arrive. I wish it would just hurry up now.

kirinm · 11/02/2021 16:07

Haha and as if by magic...

Spotting now so CD1 will start tomorrow. That is a nearly normal 28 day cycle.

whambam89 · 11/02/2021 16:42

Oh no sorry AF has arrived @kirinm hopefully next month will be our month x

kirinm · 11/02/2021 18:30

@whambam89

Oh no sorry AF has arrived *@kirinm* hopefully next month will be our month x
Fingers crossed. I'm considering taking a 'laid back' and not OPKing this month. Although last time I did that I was stressed as I didn't know if I'd ovulated.
SS123456 · 11/02/2021 20:01

So sorry @kirinm 😔❤️

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SS123456 · 12/02/2021 10:59

Just got to see this fidgety little baby at 12+1 😊❤️

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Sansa87 · 12/02/2021 11:51

@SS123456 what a beaut!

We did a 4d scan on Wednesday. It was amazing! She looks like the most beautiful baby I’ve ever seen.

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