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When he's p****d you off but you need to DTD

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beckyBP · 31/10/2020 13:04

Hey girls,

Just for lols really as if you don't laugh you'll cry.

When is it that even though we argue once a month MAX and it falls on a day it's ESSENTIAL to DTD 🙄😂🙈

We're currently not talking.. both SO stubborn and neither will want to apologise today but defo need to DTD.

Please tell me I'm not alone 😂🙈

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AMS19 · 31/10/2020 13:13

@beckyBP literally the worst!! Probably the only time I've been tempted to take the blame...not quite, but tempted 😂😂

beckyBP · 31/10/2020 13:15

@AMS19 tell me about it 😂😂 I'm going to give it a while but I might have to back down. Ffs 😂🙈

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Stabal · 31/10/2020 13:59

@beckyBP currently waiting on ovulation any day but also currently huffing with each other 😂

jessi60 · 31/10/2020 14:07

Haha this made me laugh.
Maybe your going to have to take the blame for this one ... pros outweigh the cons ha. Xx

Littleheart5 · 31/10/2020 14:13

God, not alone. We needed to DTD last night, and in the middle of a row I said ‘let’s just get it (sex) over with!’. Cue hurt feelings (understandably) from DP 😳

BriocheBuns · 31/10/2020 17:04

Ha ha omg this is me right now! Love this thread as I thought I was alone!

My OH has left the house and went off to his mates because we had a row. I have a very positive opk today and he knows this...

Just sucks to miss a chance when we know we’ll make up eventually.

I’m okay with DTD and not speaking after 😂 lets see where this goes...

Bmidreams · 31/10/2020 17:05

Chandler and Monica.

BriocheBuns · 31/10/2020 17:09

@Bmidreams - 😂

beckyBP · 31/10/2020 17:14

Omg ladies.. we are all in this together 😂😂

YES to the Chandler and Monica vibes. Luckily, he came down and 'made friends' neither of us apologised though 😂😂

They need to understand there's only a few days a month we ovulate don't friends or not, we're DTD!

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Sunstar16 · 31/10/2020 17:16

This was us on Sunday 😂

BriocheBuns · 31/10/2020 17:25

We always seem to be great all month around other than fertile week. Must be a sign

MrsB2019x · 31/10/2020 18:03

Make-up-but-I’m-still-kinda-angry-with-you sex is the best kind of sex 😂

beckyBP · 02/11/2020 08:31

So annoying isn't it! We made friends so DTD Saturday. Think I had my LH surge yesterday so I guess I ovulate very soon. It all blows my mind 🤯

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BriocheBuns · 02/11/2020 09:12

@beckyBP - at least u managed to dtd, my OH went off to his mates on Saturday and stayed overnight! Had my peak LH surge on Saturday morning so I’m really annoyed because we missed our chance.

ButterscotchBabe · 02/11/2020 09:20

Haha I think maybe they plan it, "if I act stubborn around this time of the month, they'll back down and I'll get away with it" 😂

beckyBP · 02/11/2020 16:41

Eurgh how annoying @BriocheBuns although I think you ovulate 24-48 hours after your LH surge so if you've DTD Sunday Monday you probably covered it.

@ButterscotchBabe you're so right. I've told him we're doing it 3 nights in a row so be ready! At least he's prepared 😂

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wildraisins · 02/11/2020 17:11

You argue every month and currently aren't talking?
Maybe you need to evaluate your relationship before TTC :/

ButterscotchBabe · 02/11/2020 17:39

@wildraisins that's a bit harsh, most healthy, happy relationships have disagreements. The point of the post is that it's annoying when these disagreements happen right when you need to DTD!

beckyBP · 02/11/2020 19:28

@wildraisins 😂😂😂 read again.. once a month MAX. So no, not once a month. The last time was probably April? Maybe before. And we weren't talking for 2 hours tops.

We've been together 12 years and this year has been a rough ride for a number of reasons so please take your negativity else where. ✌🏽 It was a lighthearted post to have a bit of a laugh and there's always one negative nelly lurking. 🙄

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BriocheBuns · 02/11/2020 20:09

I think @wildraisins was referring to me 😂 Am I right? Lol

beckyBP · 02/11/2020 20:18

Who knows @BriocheBuns all I know is we don't need that kind of negativity! 💁🏼‍♀️
Can't be arguing with my fiancé and a stranger who makes ill informed judgement on people they don't know in one week. That's way too exhausting 😉🤣

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BriocheBuns · 03/11/2020 10:06

Not gonna lie we do argue a lot, it’s because we’re always around each other. This year has been really tough with COVID, working from home means I don’t actually leave the house much to catch that well needed break from my OH.

Hopefully things will be better next year but we’re still wanting a baby, couples make up after arguments but it’s not really a reason to stop TTC x

beckyBP · 03/11/2020 10:36

@BriocheBuns you don't have to justify anything doll. People argue, that's life. Only you know your relationship and what makes you happy.

Like you said this years been a wild one, like no other so tensions are going to be a little higher. We were due to get married in June and the in the lead up I was a mess so probably more snappy than normal. Also, at the beginning of lockdown I struggled with weekends (I'm super social) so was probably a right pain in the ass you my fiancé but that's life!! No one is perfect! Xx

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