CSG (Thread 3)

[candycrush2298]

Continuation of 5 previous threads

@Elakiya were you counting from first positive peak or last positive peak when predicting today?

I know I know, but I am still having my 🤞 for you

@Kaybobx noooooo were not thinking about temps dropping dont even think about that lol!!!!!

@candycrush2298 I’m counting from first peak but have gone back and checked dates and that’s wrong. I have an 11 day Luetal Phase it seems from the point App says ovulation to when I get my period ( going back and adding up on the other months) therefore I actually should get my period tomorrow not today.

Well that’s a relief I was freaking out that I had a 10 day Luetal phase. 11 days makes me slightly happier.

@Elakiya 11 days is a perfectly normal luteal phase. So you can relax hahahahaha. OK will check back in tomorrow to see if AF showed up.

Hi everyone! Sorry for the bfns.

I'm 7 days po today. I've drunk a lot this weekend and I'm drinking today at a spa so feel like I deffo won't get pregnant, but I can't put my life on hold so just carrying on as normal!

Haven't been able to properly do my temps either since my thermometer broke.

I expect my period to arrive Monday or Tuesday next week. I am not testing this month, I'm going to wait for my period.

@snapple21 you go girl!!! No testing!! Youre doing so well. Are you going to be ordering a new femometer?

And its good to just live and enjoy life we can't hold everything off.

@candycrush2298 I'll order another when I get my
Period this month!

Went back to bed. Woke up feeling like I’ve got a stitch. Feeling pretty certain we’re out again and just not sure how long I can face this!

Sorry for the radio silence, I've hardly left my bed the whole weekend, been so lethargic and feeling constantly sick (still haven't been though) and had some mild cramping where my ovaries are on and off. I'm hoping the nausea will wear off soon, it's getting quite tiring! No idea how the MIL hasn't worked it out yet, I've not seen her all weekend and I normally see her quite a lot. Just over 7 weeks now I think. First midwife appointment next week. Dreamt I lost the baby last night, that was fun 🙄

Happy birthday for yesterday @candycrush2298 @reginaaphlange

@candycrush2298 I’m wiping blood now so she’ll be here in full flow tomorrow. I am still happy though. 30 day cycle plus an 11 day LP. Just need to sort my eating out and we’ll get there 😁

@Welliedays good luck with the midwife appointment and hope you start feeling better soon

I’ve caved and wasted a frer. I just want any fucking line.

Hope you’re ok wellie

Zilch.

Thanks @elakiya and @namechangettc

How many dpo are you @namechangettc

10 so it should show.

Not necessarily @namechangettc, you know that it quite possibly won't from the thing you shared earlier! I'd say between 12 and 14dpo it should show, but not at 10dpo

@Welliedays good luck for your midwife appointment.

@Elakiya still hoping she doesn't show!!

@snapple21 i hope your AF stays away too! I drink all the time, dont worry lol.

@NamechangeTTC im sure you shared a positive post this morning about the days to get a BFP lol. You're not out yet.

@Kaybobx She's arrived, well I don't know whether to count it as Day 1 (because it's brown blood and I have less than a teaspoon amount of it) but if I don't count until Bright red blood then tomorrow morning is AF.

I'm okay dw. I am actually surprisingly happy at the moment hahahaha

Dog keeps hugging my tummy and I’m like 👀👀👀👀

@Welliedays thank you for the birthday wishes.

Sounds like you had a rough weekend. I am pretty sure there's like nothing you can take it. Sometimes I think you don't know whats more worth the sickness because then you have some reprieve or the nausea as you not actually getting sick.

Hope you get some kind of peace soon hun!!! Eeeep getting so close to the midwife appointment.

@NamechangeTTC so sorry hun!!!

@Kaybobx how you doing???

@Elakiya awwww no it isn't CD1 yet but sounds like she will be here any minute. Gutted I am glad you're good but I am sad.

Guys I need your help - this American I am chatting too was 8 weeks today went for her scan and she miscarried. She kept saying over a week ago that she is worried because all her symptoms stopped and I said many have said that and they are fine. So I was reassuring her and now I feel like shit. Wtf can I say to her to comfort her????

I don’t think there’s much you can say except offer to be there and listen, let her tell you how shit it is and don’t just offer platitudes (“it’ll be ok” etc).

@Elakiya thats rubbish!!! But glad you are happy 😊 thats all that matters.

@candycrush2298 yeah im good thank you, hows your day been?

Oh gosh you wasn't to know, don't beat yourself up about it. Unfortunately these things just happen. All you can do is just be there to listen, she may not want to speak about it so just let her lead the conversation. Poor woman though! So sad

@NamechangeTTC thanks hun yeah definitely I absolutely hate being told that when I am down.

@Kaybobx glad you're good. Do you think our soy was a bust???? Ugh what a shambles. I am good thank you, very good day the rain stopped and we got to do a lot of site seeing. Yesterday with the weather so bad we spent it playing board games lol!!! Was still a fantastic chilled birthday.

Yeah I know shame poor woman. Absolutely shit she just reiterated that I will be going for every single private scan at all the milestones they have to offer. Just so sad. Thanks for your advice.

I took it and just went back to her and said "I am not going to ask how you are because thats just stupid, and I am so sorry whenever you want to talk I am right here for you."

Ugh I can't even begin to imagine what she she is going through. She was going to go for the harmony test at 10 weeks as her sister has down syndrome. I know its so common but I guess you just hope everything works out. I obviously won't ask but wonder if she will just start trying again. What would you guys do? Just try again straight away or what?

I’m a child after 3 stillbirths (I think. I actually don’t know weeks as my mum still can’t talk about them but I know 3 visible pregnancies and labours) and the offer to not hide this and talk is huge.

@candycrush2298 thats the best thing you could of said. Life is so cruel at times.
I guess you won't know how you will react unless it happens, It's hard because you'd want to try straight away as as we know it can take years but the thought of it happening again would haunt me.

Whos left from those that took soy this cycle now?
I'm trying not to say too much because i don't want to get excited then get BFNs but i feel different. Like my cramps arent cramps it feels different i can't even explain it. More like pulling! I dont know, just clinging onto hope! 🤣🤣

Glad you're having a fab time away. We are going to a hot tub in Worcester for New Years so that will mostly consist of walks and board games too.