CSG (Thread 3)

[candycrush2298]

Continuation of 5 previous threads

@snapple21 the first peak isn't true! I ovulated after my 3rd day of peaks according to my BBT chart. Maybe thats why I've not conceived in 12 months! Ive always BD to peak then stopped so probably been missing it all this time. Keep BDing until you can't take no more lol

@snapple21 trust me I know how tough that is 🤣🤣 it was so so so tough the last two cycles but you girls all encouraged me to do it. So I am just returning the favour you can do it hun.

@snapple21 yes let us know when yours spikes. If yours also only spikes in about 2 days then it just adds the theory that we do ovulate after the last peak.

@Kaybobx yeah you were a boss with all your BD this cycle whahahaha!! How's your headache?

@candycrush2298 @Welliedays You're possibly right there but PCOS tends to make period cramps unbearable so I am hoping anything pregnancy related won't be quite as bad but knowing my luck it would probably be even worse.

@Kaybobx You've got a point there. Maybe you have been missing it all this time.

@candycrush2298 I saw some woman's fertility friend successful pregnancy chart. It showed that just before her period the graph dropped slightly (similar to what you had 2 days before AF was due and then it started rising again.

@snapple21 Yep defo a peak. If you can't get strips then cover your bases and BD away. If you get tired of BD-ing self insemination is the new way to go :P or as @Boc86 said "hop on" at the end :P

@elakiya I used. To have really bad period cramping to the point I'd be off school and strong painkillers wouldn't touch it.. Thankfully its eased over the years and now I only occasionally have months like that so I totally understand how awful and complete deliberating it can be and I've found the cramps (there are a few) are nowhere near as bad.. Unless you eat something too fatty and as your digestive system slows down it gets painful, but if day the tiredness and nausea is just as distracting but obvs for different reasons! But to be honest everyone has different symptoms and different pregnancies, so fingers crossed this is your month and you have one of those pregnancies that you don't even know you are except for the BFP!! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you

@Elakiya awww I can't even begin to imagine how painful your AF pain is xx

Wow really? Thats awesome so you saying I shouldnt freak out if it drops the first day i should hope for it to go back up then lol!! How cool thanks for letting me know. Will be sure to look for that next cycle since I am not temping this cycle.
Still secretly hoping next cycle I will be using a tempdrop but my hubby isn't grand at taking notes lol.

Thanks gals I shall report back 😘

@Elakiya @Boc86 hop on at the end!! Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@candycrush2298 my headache has gone thanks for asking. I got some anadin extra which seemed to do the trick, paracetamol just dont cut it.

Imagine if i have literally just been missing it all this time!! 🙈
I keep telling hubby no, he's got into a routine of everyday but im done with BD haha! He keeps asking for bjs instead (sorry TMI) but the thought of it makes me gag! Im such a horrible wife lol

@snapple21 can't wait to hear.

@Kaybobx aww thats good glad you're feeling better I know paracetamol is pretty useless lol!!
Awww it would be amazing if you succeed this cycle. We wouldn't know if its the soy, extra BD, pineapple or what but it wouldn't matter because you would have a BFP. Awww nothing would honestly be sooo freaken happy!!!
Lol I take it you're not a fan of foreplay then 🤣🤣🤣

@candycrush2298 I'm going to start wearing my glasses more. I cant deal with these 2 day headaches!

Soy, pineapple core, vit c & d, zinc, maca, folic acid and extra BD. If im not pregnant i absolutely give up!

Haha oh god i sound such an awful person. When i was younger i was all for the foreplay, now i just want a quickie, cup of tea and to go to bed hahaha!!! Considering hubby is 6 years younger i should probably make more of an effort 🙈

@Kaybobx yay!! So pleased to hear you will be wearing your glasses more regular it will honestly help you so much and make such a difference.

Whahahaha yes definitely got a lot going on there. Let's hope the combination is exactly what you needed

Youre not an awful person. He knew you were older when he got involved with you. Maybe find some kind of compromise lol. He obviously still finds you super attractive and wants to get it on with you.

@Elakiya @ReginaaPhalange just saw this and thought of you ladies 💙💙💙

@candycrush2298 awe thank you, you always have such nice things to say.
I think its because i feel so body conscious since having a baby. I know she's 2 nearly 3 but I've never really lost the weight and ive never been this size in my life. I won't let him touch my tummy or anything 🙈 its made our sex life basic.

Cant wait to have another baby and make it even worse!!! Hahahaha

Conceive plus pills just popped up on my FB, apparently they have a different type for those with PCOS. The reviews look good too

@candycrush2298 Aww thanks for thinking of us. Low achy cramps have started along with my spots. How disappointing ...

@Kaybobx I hate them too. My husband tries to navigate me there in the mornings. So annoying....

@Kaybobx I know its so easy to see ourselves in a certain way but he wants to have another one with you and loves your body enough to wanna get down and dirty ALL the time that to him it may even be a turn on like a primal instinct that you gave him a princess and are willing to change your body again for another one. Try and see your body from his point of view and you may start feeling the beauty and confidence you used to have. I know how looking at your body and feeling the parts you don't like isnt always grand and you may miss how it used to be but your body and those unlikeable parts did something amazing they grew your little girl and that is pretty darn amazing!!! So remember just because you're different now does not mean you're any less beautiful if anything it makes you more beautiful because you created a miracle and if there's anything during ttc its what a miracle it is to create a life 💜

@Elakiya @ReginaaPhalange maybe look at those conceive plus pills @Kaybobx shared they look awesome.

@Elakiya sorry you're spotting again I guess that shows you really did ovulate. What a terrible way to have confirmation but at least you know you got another cycle where you did ovulate when you weren't ovulating at all before so metformin and everything else you doing is definitely working so much so that you are likely going to have a shorter cycle again this time around which is another positive xx

@Elakiya glad it's not just me!

@candycrush2298 i know what you mean it's just hard to think that way. I work in a gym, he used to work there too. We both used to be so toned... i even had abs! I absolutely look nothing like that girl he first met haha!!
Anyway I'm not moaning enough about me and my fatness lol

@Kaybobx lol yeah I know what you mean, our bodies play such a big role in our self confidence and its difficult to see the positives. Lol its not moaning I like to think of it as venting hahaha. We are women we understand. I mean I do, anyway being obese before I get hating my body all too well lol. So whenever you feel like a "vent session" you know where to go lol

@candycrush2298 Oh I am not spotting. I meant spots i.e. acne in the two week wait lol!. Although pretty sure if I exercised I'd be spotting right now.

@Kaybobx thanks for the link. I'll have a look into them. Also hate pregnacare so would be good to get an alternative. Hopefully these are smaller and easier to swallow.

@Elakiya ohhhh lol sorry totally read that wrong. I also have been getting them during ovulation the last two cycles. I never noticed them before. Is it normal for you to get spots around ovulation?

@candycrush2298 literally don't know what i would do with my days without you girls. I speak to you all more than my best friends!! Lol. I hope we all have a friendship for a long time, my friends just speak about different things... mainly because they aren't or dont wish to be pregnant.

@Elakiya i have spots too! My daughter said this morning whats that on your chin mummy. Yeah thanks for pointing it out hun haha!
I didnt enjoy pregnacare either! Yuk! Like bullets and make your pee yellow lol

@candycrush2298 hahaha I see what you're doing there. Yes I usually have it most months. Spots start a week before AF.