AF Due 8-9 Sept. One more week. Who’s with me?!

[Lille4]

I mean I’m hoping AF stays away completely and we get bfps! We had a chemical last month but I’m feeling anxious and slightly more positive this time. So fingers crossed. Who else is in this boat?
Will probably poas at around 11dpo...

Morning everyone! I’m 9dpo today and I should know better but I still went ahead and tested. BFN 😭😭 I think I’ll just wait until AF us due or a day before.
I’m having the worst cramps and pinch like pains in my left side too which made me want to test.

How are you all holding up?

@Lille4 sorry to hear that, but 9dpo is still early so you're not out yet!

I'm still trying to hold off until friday night/ Saturday but last night was soooooo tempted to test, managed to stop myself though haha

I've had some twinges and light cramping, don't know how much of this is just my cycle trying to get back to normal! That mixed with little to no cm and certainly not like ew makes me think I'm not going to be lucky this month!

Face has also broken out like a pizza since coming off the pill 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣

I had a BFN today 13 dpo (around there, just a guestimate from my cycle tracker) AF due today but she hasn't arrived yet, if shes still not here by friday I might fork out for a ClearBlue digital 🤣 today is day 32 of my cycle (my last 3 cycles have been 30 days) I hate this waiting 😭😭

The waiting is the worst. I also hate that every month I convince myself that it will be positive this month.

I caved at 10dpo and got a bfn 😫

AF due on the 10th of September, but definitely feel weird, in bed for 9:30pm which is definitely not like me and back ache, and had slight bleeding once when wiping yesterday (implantation bleeding?!)

I tested today and had a squinter and it's 3 more days until AF. So either it's an evap line or the beginning of an early bfp. All we be confirmed within the next 48hrs 😩

@Monday55 that's exciting!! Congrats!!

@Monday55 fingers crossed for you!

I'm going to do another either tonight or tomorrow morning to see

Hi ladies, can I join? I'm on 10DPO today, AF should be due in three days, but after four cycles of convincing myself I was pregnant (then heartbreak each BFN) I've decided to try and hold off until Sunday. Really struggling with keeping my mind of it today though, and looking for support as a number of us seem to be going through it around the same time. Wishing for happy results for everyone waiting to test 🍀

Hi @chillyfields I'm the same as you, every month I say I'm just going to wait and see what happens but I always end up convincing myself and testing early and it being bfn

I bought frer. Now I'm too scared to pee.
Shall I wait for tomorrow? Af due in 2 days but been having those lovely signs that could be for both pregnancy and af. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@ShellMc2237 it's awful isn't it? How many DPO are you now?

@Waitingforbabypage definitely wait until first morning urine if poss I'd say, mainly because those FRERs are so bleeding expensive!

@Waitingforbabypage do it tomorrow am then let us know! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

@chillyfields I'm 12 dpo today. AF is meant to be due Tuesday but I've had some spotting today which is making me think I'm out for this month. Really want some bfp's on this thread!

@ShellMc2237 Stay hopeful as it could be implantation bleeding if it's really light and disappears after a day or two. Keeping fingers crossed for you 🤞

I couldn't wait, it was a very stark white bfn.

However, tiny glimmer of hope is that i completely forgot my cycles always used to be 31 days not a "standard" 28, so there's still a small chance. I haven't tracked af for a good 7 years so I have no idea what's happening these days.
As I've said somewhere else on here, OH and I have a very healthy sex life and dtd every other day anyway, so there is always that slight chance that even with the shift in ovulation/fertility window, we could have caught it at the right time.
We're not out until the fat lady sings.
Still clinging on to stay positive or I'll cry. X

Thanks ladies for the well wishes but I'm out 😔 AF just arrived tonight. The only positive thing is I get to start a new cycle 3days early and I get to drink some wine this weekend.

Hoping you all get your BFPs I'll be here rooting for you

@Monday55 sorry to hear that, but like you said 3 days earlier for a new cycle, have a wine for me, we've ran out here!

Oh I'm so sorry @Monday55, glad you can have a glass though. And bring on next month!

I just caved (of course I did) and did an IC. Negative of course. Will wait a few more days and do another but I'm also not feeling positive about this cycle 😔

Bfn for me this morning so I'm definitely out.
Does anyone else get massively mixed emotions? I spend the TWW convincing myself that it will be a bfp every time, but then when it's a bfn I'm disappointed when I don't see a second line on the frer, but then when I know it's definitely bfn I'm a little bit relieved and then I go back to convincing myself that next month will be the month. It's hard for me sometimes as hubby desperately wants children and always has done, and I've been the one putting it off, so every month you can tell he's upset about it being bfn since I came off the pill in December

@ShellMc2237 I know what you mean about convincing yourself every month, I haven't had the chance to test because af always arrives on time or early. I have af cramps at the moment so I know it will arrive in a couple of days but still trying to convince myself 🤦🏼‍♀️(stupid I know) I also find when af does arrive it is a bit of relief and then start thinking next month will be our month but clearly not. been ttc since October. It is hard!

Out of interest I was wondering if anyone had weird symptoms coming off the pill? I've had ready tender breasts, sometimes when I lie down I feel like they're icey and just sensitive in general! I just looked in the mirror and my areola look friggin huge 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

@HeyDW96 I've had a ton of weird symptoms, cramps, acne, horrendous mood swings, and for the first few months got really sore nipples a week before AF but now breasts go absolutely massive, veiny and sore but it's annoying as every month there's something different

@ShellMc2237 I've had that and bleeding gums! Strange. Don't even know if the gum thing has anything to do with it or if I'm just observing two completely unrelated things happening 🤣

@HeyDW96 it's crazy how you suddenly start noticing everything that may or may not have been there before but every little twinge in your body you think it's a symptom