TTC after previous abortions worry

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Hi, I don't know if this is the right space but just looking for some experience and hopefully some reassurance to stop my panic and overthinking!

I've had two abortions one 8 years ago and one 5. I have been with the same partner and we were just young, had no money and were not in the right place.

Now 33, we are and have been TTC for 4 months. I have always had a niggle in the back of my mind that I wouldn't be able to get pregnant or it would take a long time because of my decisions. But now since TTC and it not 'working on the first time' has sent me into a full on panic mode making the whole experience horrible! Feeling frustrated because it happen twice with a missed pill and now no...

Any good experiences or advice welcome!

Don’t feel guilty for the decisions you’ve made! Mental hurdles will hold you back so try and let go of that concept of it won’t happen or it’s going to take time, it creates stress which can make things harder. Also know it will happen at the perfect time for you. If you’ve been on contraception it can take sometime for the body to alter. There are lots of tips from Dr Larisa, who is a fertility and women’s health doctor, maybe research her and see what guidance is applicable to you.