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Am I going crazy or am I pregnant?

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ria85 · 17/05/2020 13:14

Hello! I'm new to Mumsnet, never been pregnant before so could really do with some advice on whether or not this is normal or if anyone has been in a similar position before?

I last had my proper period around 20th March (seems like forever ago I know), it was as regular as it always is. I think I ovulated around April 9th (I always get cramping mid-cycle so assuming this is ovulation pains), and had unprotected sex a few days before this.

Since then, I've had cramps nearly every day, had a 'heavy feeling' in my abdomen, been feeling so exhausted some days I can't even get out of bed, a few days of feeling really nauseous, my nipples have been more sensitive and the area around them has kind of grown and gone weird I don't even know what is going on with them.

Around 16th-18th April, I had a 'period' which was nothing like a period I've ever had before. It was really light, only had to use a pad, red blood, not clots (usually I have heavy clots) and only lasted a few days. Could this have been implantation bleeding?? Since then I've not had another 'normal period' as I would expect if I wasn't pregnant.

I have probably done so many tests since I started to get symptoms, and have been getting really really faint lines, I can see them but they are hard to see and only in a certain light, so I wouldn't really count it as a BFP in my opinion. I've just had a HCG blood test and will get the results end of next week

I'm really scared because if I am pregnant, I am on a difficult situation with the potential Dad (we have very recently split up and were drunk when we slept together). None of my friends have babies so I can't ask anyone and I'm terrified and really scared to reach out to anyone because I feel like I am just overthinking these symptoms. If I am pregnant it would put me at around 7 weeks.

Does anyone have any similar experiences or if you can offer any advice or words of wisdom, I would really appreciate it. I'm feeling very emotional and alone in this situation right now

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BelievinForAMiracle · 17/05/2020 14:15

Bless you. It does sound like you are pregnant. Don’t panic though. Lines on the test generally do mean you are pregnant, as far as I know they rarely show a false positive, only false negatives. Take another and I guess wait for the blood test result. In the mean time please tell a trusted friend or parent so that you are not all alone dealing with this.

Justttc97 · 17/05/2020 14:15

Hi didn’t want to read and run, I know it’s hard but you will just have to wait for your results.

PMS and pregnancy symptoms can be so similar try not to stress too much it could of been ur period last month I had a similar thing in April where it was really light which is unusual for me but I think with everything going on atm can mess up ur cycle x

ria85 · 17/05/2020 15:10

I appreciate it's such a hard stressful time for everyone and it's making our bodies do so many unusual things. I've really worked myself up waiting for these results

Sorry to go on an emotional rant, thank you for your messages x

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