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How long did it take you?

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fairydust3 · 08/05/2020 19:35

How long did it take you to conceive?
How old are you and do you have any medical conditions (endo, pcod etc?)

Just looking for people to share their experiences.

I'm 25 and it's been 5 months so far. Regular periods, no medical conditions. Think the first few months were all over the place since coming off the pill and my ovulation has only been normal for 3 cycles.

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Rainbow1808 · 08/05/2020 21:07

5 days after stopping the pill with DC1
Currently come off the pill to TTC DC2

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Tiredmum100 · 08/05/2020 21:09

I was 27 with dc1and got pregnant 1st month or trying. 29 with dc 2 and got pregnant 2nd month of trying. The biggest thing I believe made a difference is I had come off the pill a good year prior to this as I've heard can take a while to leave your system. Good luck OP.

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Bunny2006 · 08/05/2020 21:14

Interesting to read others experiences! Sorry I shouldn't really be on here, as I haven't conceived yet. I'm aged 24, been trying on/off (still never using contraception just taken a few breaks from tracking) for 5 years, no medical conditions.

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Tollergirl · 08/05/2020 21:21

Not sure about the length of time after coming off the pill - I remember reading about the rebound effect where your fertility is high as soon as you come off the pill but I could be making that up?! Anyway to add my experience I got pregnant first month of trying at the age of 36 which was a bit of a shock if I'm honest as all I'd heard about was the fertility failing off a cliff at 35 thing. I think that their also might be a genetic component at play as similarly my DM said she was very quick to conceive.

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DisneyGirl2387 · 08/05/2020 22:34

I'm 32 and currently pregnant with my first baby. It has taken us 2 and a half years to get here. Despite having regular cycles and always getting positive OPKs I found out that I don't actually ovulate on my own. I'm only pregnant thanks to our wonderful NHS. Wishing you lots of luck OP. I know how draining and all consuming it can be. My advice would be to give it 12 months and if it hasn't happened by then seek some further help xx

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Fae28 · 08/05/2020 22:56

I'm still going 2 years 3 months, not had help from the doctors yet though. No miscarriages, had a suspected ectopic about 10 years ago. I'm fairly certain the problem is with my hormones. All I'll say is make sure you do the deed every other day. Then you dont have to worry about when your ovulating.

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BasalGanglia · 08/05/2020 23:04

34 - 2 months but ended in ectopic. Waiting for it to resolve before trying again.

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BooMamaBear · 09/05/2020 07:31

I have PCOS and a genetic condition which has a 50% chance of being passed on and if passed on baby is incompatible with life so here goes:
-1. Due to PCOS had no period for 6 months weren't actively trying but did want a baby had 1 Period then got pregnant aged 30,
2, again not actively trying but if it happened great- Aged 32 but due to genetic condition had TFMR at 13 weeks,

  1. actively tried fir 5 months had a chemical after 3 months aged 34 ended in TFMR again
  2. This time aged 35 first month of actively trying and now almost 18 weeks pregnant


OP you're still young and have no underlying conditions so good luck XX
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KellyHall · 09/05/2020 07:34

Myself - 6 months, no health issues

One friend - 4 years, no health issues

Another friend - 6 years, no health issues and she'd just adopted a baby!

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Wishing56 · 09/05/2020 07:45

I was 28, no medical conditions and it took 6 months.
Although I kept relying on the apps like Flo or Ovia to tell me when my fertile week was and after I started using ovulation tests realised that the app was way out so had been missing the peak time.
First month of using ovulation tests and I got pregnant! I now have 14week old twin daughters

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lovelilies · 09/05/2020 07:58

1st, age 24 same month I stopped the pill
Second age 32 second month trying
Third age 34 2 months trying - mc at 6/40
Fourth age 35 2 months trying

Since having the children I've been diagnosed with inflammatory arthritis (autoimmune) and ADHD, wasn't on any meds at time of TTC apart from co codamol.

My friend is 39 (same as me) and is trying for no2 but been 18m and no luck so far.

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