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New thread for the crazy gang - Part 5!

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Mumofboys17 · 06/05/2020 11:18

Not sure if anyone else has made one yet, hoping we haven’t got lost!! So made a new thread just in case 😊

@Beau20
@LV1987
@Danni2019
@Missgoldilocks
@WaitingOnThePositive
@Boo2020

Our BFP’s
@Sunflower2019
@Katie1109
@Fredthespider
@Quiffy

If I’ve missed anyone please add in!
Lucky thread number 5.... hopefully 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Missgoldilocks · 19/06/2020 10:49

@Mumofboys17 2ww madness here you come! At 1dpo I basically cried because I pretty much think there's no chance anymore lol I feel better now tho. Sick of sex sick of checking my cervix mate siiiick of it can this just be over already lol

@katie1109 glad to hear things are better!! Fingers and toes crossed for you x when's af due?

LV1987 · 19/06/2020 13:58

Really chuffed to hear from you @katie1109, and glad that you and OH are taking some comfort in each other 😘

Missgoldilocks · 20/06/2020 12:19

Hey everyone? This thread has gone so quiet! 6dpo for me and absolutely fuck all to report😭 I know it's early but mehhhhhh x

LAnna20 · 20/06/2020 12:55

Morning @missgoldilocks . Stay positive it's too early to see signs 🤗. I've decided to take a more relaxed approach to this cycle after being obsessed with opks last cycle. So Im not really sure where I am but I think OV day was yesterday.

Mumofboys17 · 20/06/2020 16:51

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here!! Just been mad busy the last few days. 2dpo for me today I think, hell of a long way to go yet!
Deffo still early at 6DPO lovely, stay positive there's still plenty of time yet xx

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Missgoldilocks · 20/06/2020 16:57

@LAnna20 thanks 🤗 I'll try keep positive lol good that you're ditching the opks! Good luck to you x

@Mumofboys17 hey there, yeah we both have a way to go. Fingers crossed!! X

Mumofboys17 · 21/06/2020 12:12

Morning! Happy Sunday!
Soooo figured it's been a while since we did some ridiculous early symptom spotting.. but we aren't called the crazy gang for nothing 😉😂
I think I'm 3dpo today, had some cramping yesterday and had small bits of clear/watery and super stretchy cm since yesterday too. Cervix is super high and very soft, took an OPK as I just wanted to POAS for the sake of it, and was actually quite surprised at this result 😳 did I get my O day wrong?! Or can I get my hopes up and assume that this is a good sign 🙃🙏🏻🙏🏻 thoughts?! Xxx

New thread for the crazy gang - Part 5!
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Missgoldilocks · 21/06/2020 12:32

@Mumofboys17 well I bloody hope it's a good sign for you!!! It sounds good!! Dtd just in case but I'll be waiting to hear more!! Haha you've got more going on than I have, 7dpo and nothing x

@katie1109 @LV1987 yall gone quiet! Hope you both are OK x

Mumofboys17 · 21/06/2020 12:35

@Missgoldilocks I could be completely off though, 3dpo is nothing 😂😂 you could have zero symptoms and well be knocked up!! There's still hope yet, keep your chin up love 😘 we got this xx

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Missgoldilocks · 21/06/2020 12:50

@Mumofboys17 thanks chick here's to hoping! It's so difficult isn't it when you want something so bad! Things are really stressful right now with work too and since me and my partner work together it's just 😳😬😬😬 ahh so stressful. I wish that he was more supportive in this too, I can't help but be upset over not getting pregnant and it's still an issue to talk about it with him it's so disheartening and more stressful. He's really not emotionally supportive 😒 urgh sorry I'm venting! It's just so frustrating

Missgoldilocks · 21/06/2020 16:04

😂 How's this for Symptom spotting, I was in sainsbury's as you do and I got these weird sharp pains in both my ovaries and sorta spread to my lower belly, lasted for like 5 mins don't think I've ever felt it before it wasn't cramps it was weird lol but Im not gonna be crazy and keep thinking about it 😬😂😂

Mumofboys17 · 21/06/2020 17:53

@Missgoldilocks I hear you!! I try really hard not to talk to DH about it too much now as I end up getting signs and eye rolls back 😐 I think men don't really get it like we do, do they?
Ooh could be something though! I've had some little niggley feeling cramps today. Kind of AF like but really light. Probs just clutching at straws here though 😂😂 dw we're both just mad haha xx

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LV1987 · 21/06/2020 18:31

Hey ladies! Sorry I've been a bit quiet, parenting has been quite hard this week with the passing of their grandad, so I've not had a great deal of time without one child or the other attached to me this week, poor loves.

On top of which I've had the period from hell, again! I was OK with it until it got to yesterday, and then I was quite upset that I wasn't going to get to do a father's day BFP reveal for the OH and had a little cry in the garden 🙄

CD4 today, with ovulation predicted for CD23. Yaaaaaaaaawn. I would quite like AF to just fuck off now so we can have some hot not baby making sex.

Missgoldilocks · 21/06/2020 20:13

@Mumofboys17 I've googled the symptoms 20 times but not finding anything concrete hahahaha.

@lv1987 Aww I'm sorry you've been going through it 🤗 also the cry is needed, it's horrible and crap! We all know it xx

Katie1109 · 22/06/2020 08:00

Morning ladies how are we all? x
@Mumofboys17 when I got pregnant my opks were dark from 9DPO onwards, I think 3DPO might be a bit too early, but God knows, I think we’ve seen it all by now! Is it possible you’re further than 3DPO? Have you got any other symptoms?
@Missgoldilocks I had these type of sharp pains on cycles where I did and didn’t conceive,so that’s definitely not a sign for me. The obvious sign for me was very sore boobs from 5DPO x
I’m CD12 today if I count first day of MC bleed as CD 1 x I normally ovulate between CD13-15 but my opks didn’t arrive on Friday, so don’t know, they should arrive today x We DTD Thursday, Saturday and this morning, so trying to stick to every other day, but literally doing it for the fun of it and you know what? I’m absolutely loving it, it feels so much better!! x

Mumofboys17 · 22/06/2020 09:43

@LV1987 bless your heart. What a shit time for you all. I agree a cry is sometimes just needed! Or in my case a complete strop that could even put my 2yr old to shame 😬 hope AF eases up a bit for you soon xx

@Missgoldilocks mate I've been googling non stop 😂 don't know what's wrong with me this cycle I've gone totally mad again!! How you feeling today?? Xx

@Katie1109 I'm probably just being completely bonkers so I'm trying not to read too much into it 😂 I'll be honest I'm not 100% about my o day this cycle as it went a bit all over the place. The 'relaxed' approach OPK- wise is NOT for me 😬I'm half sure it was when I think it was though... who knows anymore 😂
SO pleased to read you're feeling good about things right now though ❤️❤️ xx

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Missgoldilocks · 22/06/2020 10:57

@katie1109 ah wishful thinking then 😭🤣 at least I'll try not to think about it now. So glad you're feeling good!! Xx

@Mumofboys17 I feel absolutely normal 😭 8dpo today and 5 days till af due. How are you? X

Mumofboys17 · 22/06/2020 12:21

@Missgoldilocks stay positive missy!! It's all we can do! X
I dunnooo.. I feel crampy again today. Mostly on my right side but had some in my back as well, normally my AF pains are all in my back so now convinced I'm out 🙄😂😂 feels like the longest 2WW ever!! We didn't get to DTD last night either as DS decided to just not sleep in the middle of the night 😫 so literally all out of my hands now!

Those of you that are partial to a cervix poke.. have any of you ever noticed a sort of sideways feeling? Mine has an obvious slit that I can feel (which I assume means it's open but think mines always like that as I've obviously been pregnant before) but the slit isn't at the bottom it's at the side? Still feels soft and high. Think I'll stop poking now though I'm scared I'll destroy my chances at a BFP if I keep it up 😂😂

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Missgoldilocks · 22/06/2020 12:57

@Mumofboys17 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg when I poke up there I get scared that I'll eff my chances for a bfp!! Yeah mines sideways too the left side its weird but I'm pretty sure it's on the side, I try not to touch that part cuz I'm like urgh I thought it was because my cervix is tilted 🤷‍♀️
I haven't had my telltale week early cramps yet but I think they happen around now so we will see

Missgoldilocks · 22/06/2020 18:08

Oh for gods sake af cramps have started 8dpo right on time this happens every cycle 🤬🤬

LV1987 · 23/06/2020 07:33

Hey @Missgoldilocks hope you're feeling a little better today xxx

Missgoldilocks · 23/06/2020 08:45

@LV1987 thanks girl but honestly I don't 🤷‍♀️ hope you're OK xxx

Mumofboys17 · 23/06/2020 17:53

@Missgoldilocks hope you're ok? I was super crampy last night too. 5dpo today, did another OPK out of curiosity and stark white today so that theory is pretty much out the window 🙄
I felt my cervix today and it felt so strange... like softish, kind of bumpy? Not going to poke anymore will wait til 12dpo (if I get that far) as it always drops and hardens sometimes hours before AF makes an appearance. Had some more creamy and watery cm today but only a bit. Keep poking my boobs in the hope they'll start hurting 🙃 I've totally completely lost it this cycle.

@LV1987 how are you doing? Xx

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Missgoldilocks · 26/06/2020 09:58

@Mumofboys17 hiya, I've just been taking a break from mumsnet, even though you get a lot of support here I think it just makes it play on my mind more. I had a huge cry a couple of nights ago to my OH and told him literally everything that was on my mind. It made me feel so much better, he was as supportive as he could be I suppose lol but just getting it out helped. Anyway we've decided that if my period comes Sunday which it will we will pay privately to get the hycosy test to put my mind at rest. But I have felt a lot calmer already which feels really good for the first time in a year.

How are you? Any symptoms? Xx

Mumofboys17 · 26/06/2020 11:08

@Missgoldilocks oh lovely. Thank you for checking in, I was thinking about you today as I know AF is due soon! Bless you. Sometimes it feels better just knowing you have a kind of plan B. ❤️
We've kind of decided on an ultimatum plan for the next year. If it doesn't happen this year, then we'll draw a line under it and move on. It's shit but I guess for some people it really is hard to conceive, us being 'some people'!! I have DS and he is my world. I'd love to give him a sibling but I can't keep putting pressure on myself or DH to do that.
I think I'm 8dpo today, don't feel any different except my cm is different this cycle, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything! X

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