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Should i Test?! please help

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AliceRidgewood · 06/04/2020 10:59

Morning All.

My partner and i have been TTC for 3 years with no joy :( Both had full fertility checks and clinics have deemed unexplained infertility. We are both healthy and early 30's. OH has two children and i had a termination at age 19.
I had given up hope in September as i was really struggling with my mental health and we decided that our only option now would be IVF which we are now saving for.

It occurred to me on Saturday that my period was due and didn't show up. My cycle is normally between 26-28 days and i am now on CD 31.
I've looked through previous cycles, before i stopped using apps and my last recorded cycles were 26, 28, 26, 29, 27 days.

Obviously this is now all i'm thinking about and worried about drinking coffee and working out.
Should i test or is it too early? i am so scared i'm getting my hopes up again!! :s

I hope everyone is safe and well.

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AliceRidgewood · 14/04/2020 11:08

@Snoooozzze im so sorry i've replied so late - coming on AF this time hit me quite hard and i did get quite down :( feeling a bit better now...i'm really sorry you also came on. Its the worst realization.

I was also pretty surprised at my reaction as me and OH had pretty much stopped hoping it would happen naturally and are saving for treatment (which is now all postponed due to the virus)
But there was that little hopefully voice in the back of my head which thought maybe, just maybe it had finally happened.

i think me and you are in the same boat.

Will you be considering any treatment?
How are you feeling? xx

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