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1dpo again, 7 months trying

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shelly10111 · 19/03/2020 11:49

Here again ladies, got groovy all 3 days in our window but kept help feel irresponsible with the virus pandemic now, knowing our lucky this will be the month we get pregnant! Due on 1st April so anyone for another two week chat?

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Florence13 · 25/03/2020 09:02

Aww @shelly10111 so sorry to hear about the job situation it is such a stressful time.

I'm trying not to symptom spot but it is getting more difficult the more days post ovulation I am haha.

shelly10111 · 25/03/2020 09:11

I'm 7dpo and it's the first month ever that I have absolutely no symptoms yet xxx

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Florence13 · 25/03/2020 11:07

I am 6dpo and also have no symptoms so far.

lydia771 · 26/03/2020 10:36

8dpo and feel like I've had so many symptoms but also don't know if I'm just looking for them 😂 I don't pms at all so something is definitely up!

Fk1989 · 26/03/2020 10:59

Hahahah same here 8dpo, I don't trust myself, I'm definitely symptom spotting obsessed, which I reckon will end up in a bfn 🤣!
I hope you ladies are all keeping well xx

shelly10111 · 26/03/2020 11:37

Oh my god I'm trying so hard not to, I'm 8dpo had slight pulling in my womb but that's it, nothing else, first month I'm making myself wait until at least 10dpo ahh please keep me updated when you test ladies we're all the day 🥰🥰

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lydia771 · 26/03/2020 15:56

I can't stop POAS but all negatives so far. I'm not ordering anymore till the weekend at least I can't help myself 😂

Florence13 · 26/03/2020 17:01

Aww it is really hard not to symptom spot but I really don't have anything to spot at all. I have no cramping or anything that gives me any idea that something exciting might be happening. Keeping my fingers crossed for you all. I don't have any tests in to hopefully stop me POAS too early.

shelly10111 · 26/03/2020 17:27

Oh my god must be something in the air... I tested too! Why !? Stupid me already feeling this months heartache. Had all the tuggings today so hoping that could be my implantation and will test again in two days (10dpo) - why do we do it to ourselves 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

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lydia771 · 26/03/2020 17:51

@shelly1101 ah god I feel the same I feel like I'm out. Just can't imagine it ever happening to me - feeling really upset. Now I'm doubting my timings on DTD and my ovulation, the internet says so many different things.

LH was peaking the tuesday evening/ weds morning I had ovulation pain all day on the Wednesday and EWCM on the Wednesday morning, we did the deed on the Saturday before, the Tuesday early morning (1am) and Wednesday afternoon (cycle day 23) about 2/3 hours after big blob of EWCM (sorry for TMI!!!). But my app predicted I would ovulate on cycle day 26 so maybe all the pain and EWCM was just leading up to the ovulation on day 26 and we didn't do it at all after day 23 :(

I'm just still not sure if you're meant to DTD when it is peaking or is it best to wait till it's gone down again? So confusing really hope I'm not out :(

lydia771 · 26/03/2020 17:54

I've weed 8 times today (like a full bladder wee) and I normally go once or twice! One half of me is thinking if I am out my body has been playing some horrid tricks on me :(

shelly10111 · 26/03/2020 20:19

@lydia771 I'd say your fine hun! So when it's full positive means your about to release the egg, it's good to have sperm waiting so we usually have sex 3 times that week, I've had so much pulling today which is new - 7 months now I'm getting so fed up xxx

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Florence13 · 26/03/2020 21:01

Aww @shelly10111 and @lydia771 your both still in with a great chance we are still early days. Although that still leaves plenty of chance to POAS and feel disappointed. But at least you two sound like you have positive symptoms 😊 that has to count for something.

shelly10111 · 27/03/2020 08:55

9dpo BFN - who am I kidding testing this early ! Can't help still feeling out though 🙄😂

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orangeeees · 27/03/2020 08:57

This is what happened to me , I didn't think about / stress about ttc and it's happened & now 6 weeks pregnant 🙂

lydia771 · 27/03/2020 09:01

9dpo BFN literally pulled the test apart looking at every angle. Who am I kidding 😂😂 I'm all out of tests now at-least so I won't get more till Monday. DP brushed his elbow across my boob in the night and it made me jump it hurt so much. Starting to get period like cramps now not due for another 5 days. 10 full bladder wees yesterday!! I normally go twice 😂 sending baby dust 😘

Florence13 · 27/03/2020 09:27

Sorry to hear about the BFNs but it is still early keeping my fingers crossed for you both. I've woken up with sore boobs today although feel it is probably just my body getting ready for AF next week.

shelly10111 · 27/03/2020 09:57

Yeah I was really
Crampy last night too but I was really twingey all yesterday so hoping that could have been soemthing happening not sure, said I wouldn't test so early silly me, debating taking my frer tomorrow because if it's negative I'll know I'm out the game pretty much xx

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lydia771 · 27/03/2020 10:57

Shelly, what tests are you using? I've been using FRER. Just ordered a pack of femometer ones so I can POAS to my hearts content rather than just having 1 at a time here 😂 Remember not out until AF shows xx

shelly10111 · 27/03/2020 11:34

@lydia771 I got those colloid gold reaponse cheapies on eBay then just cheap strips, saving my digital and first response for any sort of line :(

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lydia771 · 27/03/2020 20:50

That's a good idea I didn't think of doing that, wasted 4 FRERs!

My CP stayed high and soft after ovulation, about 5dpo dropped low and stayed soft, now at 9dpo its moved higher and still soft. I've never checked it before this but hoping that's a good sign

shelly10111 · 27/03/2020 22:14

@lydia771 well the weird thing is my back is just pure acne this week my partner can't believe it :( I have very clear skin etc but my back is just bubbling up with spots eww! Still twingey tonight and exhausted after work, 10dpo tomorow and really tempted to just take my frer as should detect soemthing if it's there :/

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shelly10111 · 28/03/2020 06:38

10dpo bfn frer so feeling out :( sharp cramps due on in four days... can feel month 8 ahead of us 😪 ordered a sperm checker online yesterday.

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Fk1989 · 28/03/2020 06:43

You're not out until AF arrives shelly10111, fingers crossed for you.

I read this article yesterday and decided I won't be testing until (if) I am late.
www.verywellfamily.com/reasons-not-to-take-a-pregnancy-test-early-1959886

Sending you all a hug x

lydia771 · 28/03/2020 08:39

shelly1101 - Huge respect for you for doing 7 months of this I already want to give up and it's my first!

That article is great it's really cleared my mind. If AF arrives, next month I'm not going to buy any tests until I at least miss my period. This whole experience is such a huge learning curve!

My cousin was told from a teenager she would never have children as her PCOS had made her infertile, she never took birth control because of this and then 12 years later had a shock and found out she was pregnant, now has a beautiful 5 year old and is about to pop with baby no2!

We will all get our time ❤️

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