I dont know what to do....

[LibbyAshleigh]

So, I'm not 100% sure yet, but I might be pregnant. But it's really really not a good time for it, yes I want more kids but I've literally just had a baby in November. I can't have another one yet. And since I'm a Christian, I'm against abortion so I can't do that either. And I would never want to anyway. I'm not sure what to do, I have very little money, I'm moving into a 2 bedroom house in April with just enough room for me, my boyfriend and my son. I won't have the money or the room for another child yet, and we plan on getting married soon. So if I'm pregnant that's going to ruin the whole thing and we'll have to put it off for ages and this is something I've very very much been looking forward too for years. I'm not saying I wouldn't love the child, but I can't have another one yet. I won't be able to handle looking after a baby while I'm pregnant, throwing up and my boyfriend is at his full time job. I'm so scared, I've prayed non stop that it'll be negative when I take the test. I don't know what to do. Any ideas?

Well firstly you need to find out if you actually are...no point worrying about something that might not be happening. Take a test.

Pee on a stick?? Stop stressing unnecessarily until you know exactly what the situation is...

Ultimately though, if you are pregnant and you don't believe in termination then it is what it is. You'll just have to get on with it. Things have a way of working out how they're supposed to, and I say that as a mother of a 16 month old and a 4 month old 🤦🏻‍♀️. It is hard work but mostly manageable.

Good luck op.

Firstly, as others have said, take a test.

Then I think you need to examine your beliefs, and ask yourself whether it's really the best thing to bring a child (which at this point is not actually a child yet) into a situation that sounds potentially quite negative - lack of money, possibility that you might not cope.

Sensitive comment but if you are a Christian and don't believe in abortion but do believe in sex before marriage then... I have nothing against anyone and their beliefs but when you add it all up?