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Anyone just gone into their tww?

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tossacoin1 · 15/02/2020 13:35

I'm 2 dpo and would love some buddies to help get me through the dreaded tww Grin this is my second month ttc first baby

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 13/04/2020 11:39

@SS123456 it's so so crap and unfair isn't it :( I waited 32 days to ovulate was driving myself insane!! No idea why it was so late :( I reallt hope this next cycle is back to normal for you....: I think I've cursed myself, I'm getting period like pains now, last night in bed on my left side I had little pinching prickling pains, but I think I only noticed it as I have literally felt nothing at all since OV

SS123456 · 13/04/2020 12:17

@AnxiousAnnie86 oh I really hope AF isn't on its way for you after waiting so long to ovulate 😔. This TTC journey is pretty rubbish isn't it. I fell in my first month with my son so never been through any of it before. I had a phone consultation with a gp last week and she said because I have a child already the nhs wouldn't do any tests or assist at all

AnxiousAnnie86 · 14/04/2020 07:19

Can anyone offer advice on this? I've attached my chart below, my app says 12dpo.... temp increased slightly today,

So I've had no symptoms, apart from two days ago in the evening I had left side pinching and some very mild cramps yest....

I did a one step yest and really thought I could see a faint line, this morning though one step again, I cannot see anything :(

Am I out? Anyone with experience of charts etc? Xxx

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 14/04/2020 08:41

@SS123456 how long have you been trying this time? I've been trying nearly a year, fell pregnant first month but had a MC :(

SS123456 · 14/04/2020 08:59

@AnxiousAnnie86 I think that chart looks good, you are not out until your bbt drops 🤞🏻🤞🏻

I've been trying for 6 months now but being a bit older don't feel I have time on my side

AnxiousAnnie86 · 14/04/2020 09:38

@SS123456 I just don't think it's postive news having a negative at 12dpo :( I have a lot of ewcm this morn don't normally get that I don't think before AF.

@SS123456 it's crazy how it can happen straight away and then not again isn't it? That's what I find so confusing x

SS123456 · 14/04/2020 12:17

@AnxiousAnnie86 with my son I got a barely visible BFP on around 15DPO so you still have time yet 😊🤞🏻

If I remember correctly you have an older child too don't you?

When I spoke to the GP she said 8 years can change a lot in terms of fertility so I guess that would explain why I may be finding it harder this time around

Have you considered private fertility treatment? I think I might look into it after the CV-19 stuff is over

AnxiousAnnie86 · 14/04/2020 13:23

@SS123456 I did another one step an hour or so ago, and I'm sure I can see the faintest of lines, but a clear and simple one was completely blank., I know they are 20miu though..... absolutely no cramps at all today....

Yeah I have a 13 year old daughter, my husband won't want to go private yet, he's very very relaxed and "it'll happen when it happens" which is easier I think when it isn't your body you are worrying about xx

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SS123456 · 14/04/2020 14:15

@AnxiousAnnie86 my partner is the same too, he hates 'wasting' money as well but like you say it's easier for them!

I think I can see a line on that! Have you got a FRER? 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

AnxiousAnnie86 · 14/04/2020 14:43

@SS123456 yeah I have three, I was trying not to use them until I really thought I was, but I just don't think I am..... if my temp hasn't dropped in morning which is day before period is due I will test then x

SS123456 · 14/04/2020 15:19

@AnxiousAnnie86 exciting, keep me posted! 😁

AnxiousAnnie86 · 15/04/2020 06:36

@SS123456 I had a big temp dip this morning so not going to test 😩😩😩 I just hope it's not another 47 day cycle next month! X

SS123456 · 15/04/2020 08:04

Ah no I'm really sorry to hear that 😩. Hopefully AF comes and is over with quickly so you can try again 🤞🏻. I'm CD5 so hopefully we will match again dates wise this month

AnxiousAnnie86 · 15/04/2020 09:38

@SS123456 possibly! It's strange both our cycles have gone wonky in the same month!! X

SS123456 · 15/04/2020 10:21

@AnxiousAnnie86 there must be something in the TTC air this month! (Aside from CV19!) 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

AnxiousAnnie86 · 16/04/2020 06:50

@SS123456 my temps back up to where it was before today! Seems to since ov it has stayed around the same point and it's back up to that, negative ON A FRER though?? :(

SS123456 · 16/04/2020 08:18

@AnxiousAnnie86 the fact it's still up seems really positive 🤞🏻. Maybe give a test a go later in the afternoon? I see a lot of late afternoon positives on here rather than FMU? 🤷🏻‍♀️

AnxiousAnnie86 · 16/04/2020 08:49

@SS123456 I'm due on today actually, I would of thought a test would show positive at any time by now:(

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SS123456 · 16/04/2020 09:25

@AnxiousAnnie86 let me know how you get on 🤞🏻🤞🏻

AnxiousAnnie86 · 16/04/2020 09:27

I will do this was today's ovulation test! I hate not knowing what the heck is going on

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marykay124 · 16/04/2020 09:35

Hi everyone. Currently 8dpo on cycle 6 and have had period like cramps for the last 3 days. Not due AF until Wednesday. I normally start cramping a day or 2 before AF appears so this is unusual. Anyone experienced the same? I stupidly did a one step test and as usual, it was a BFN.

I'm not sure where we're going wrong tbh. I use the advanced Clear Blue ovulation tests to determine when I ovulate and always get a static smiley so I assume I am ovulating each month. We DTD 4-6 times during each FW, take vitamins, have stopped drinking caffeine, are under 35 (29 and 32) and are generally in good health. My cycles are regular and I don't appear to have any obvious signs of PCOS. I'm starting to become really disheartened by the whole process, each month staring at multiple negatve tests Sad.

SS123456 · 16/04/2020 10:44

@AnxiousAnnie86 how strange! Do you think you may ovulate twice this month after the odd one last month?!

SS123456 · 16/04/2020 10:47

@marykay124 welcome 😊. I am feeling your pain on this one, TTC is so confusing and disheartening isn't it! I am 36 so a little older and TTC my second (I have an 8 year old). This is my 7th cycle TTC. It sounds like you are doing everything right 🤞🏻

AnxiousAnnie86 · 16/04/2020 18:14

@SS123456 AF just came 😩 weird my temp didn't drop.... maybe it's just because it's so hot! Oh well fingers crossed for this month :(

SS123456 · 16/04/2020 18:55

@AnxiousAnnie86 Really sorry to hear that 😩. Fingers crossed for next month ❤️

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