I’m only 10dpo so I know still very early but I had this line on a Superdrug test this afternoon so not even fmu and I’ve heard these tests are pretty good so I’m fairly sure I am pregnant. We have unprotected sex so I know there’s a chance it can happen and so does he! But we were always as careful as we could be without using protection trying to avoid those fertile days but had a surprise very early ovulation a few days after dtd and here I am with a very likely bfp and no one to talk to. Wouldn’t want to tell any family or friends until after 12 weeks but I realise I obviously do need to let my hubby know very soon! I wouldn’t want to tell him if it turns out to be nothing so should I atleast wait until period late and make sure it’s a definite bfp? I know deep down he will be happy (eventually) but I’m worried about his immediate reaction as it will be a shock for him, he often makes comments about not wanting another child but I don’t know how serious these comments are. We are in a very solid marriage with lovely children already, I don’t think he feels the need for anymore, he likes things how they are. When and how do I start the conversation? also do I say I think I’m pregnant but haven’t tested yet then he’s kind of semi warned for a potential bfp ...I know that’s a small fib but it would be easing him into the idea?! or do I just say had a feeling or I was late so I tested and I am pregnant?? Assuming I am and this test isn’t dodgy. Will do a FRER in the morning. Sorry to ramble on but feeling a bit alone, I want to feel really happy and I do deep down just want to get to the point where my hubby is too but I know I’ve got to have that big shock conversation with him first!