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5 days late with BFN

112 replies

Sweethaven · 31/01/2020 19:21

Hi,
So my periods are always regular, never missed one, never late... you get my drift.
AF is now 5 days late. But I keep getting BFN. I’ve been using the clear blue digital.

Only symptoms I really have though is tiredness, backaches and not interested in foods.
I had a MC 7 years ago, and had zero symptoms I was pregnant, I was too busy to notice my period was late, and found out when I was 8 weeks.
Is there anyone that had a BFP pretty much later on? I’m driving myself insane with being in between late and negatives

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Brodijen · 05/02/2020 17:01

Cycle Day 36 here and still.......nothing. I actually feel nothing any more. I am SO frustrated. Did another cheapie this morning, BFN. How is this even possible?! @Kaylab2489 So sorry to hear that, look after your self the next few days and reset for next cycle.

Bl0ndeye · 05/02/2020 18:44

Legit is the most fustrating thing I’ve ever experienced

Brodijen · 05/02/2020 19:09

@Bl0ndeye What cycle day are you now? And what cycle day have you gotten a BFP on before?

Bl0ndeye · 05/02/2020 19:21

My flo app says day 32 ...

Takes me ages get a BFP @brodijen
With my son it said +4 weeks on the digital before it would even come up on the normal dye tests drove me as equally insane I have long cycled tho 36 days

Bl0ndeye · 05/02/2020 19:23

@Brodijen is this your first ?

Brodijen · 05/02/2020 19:26

@Bl0ndeye That’s insane! And so frustrating. This will hopefully be my second pregnancy, I miscarried at 12 weeks in October. I got a BFP on day 33 that time so I suppose I can just give up now I’m on day 36. I just would love to be pregnant again.

Bl0ndeye · 05/02/2020 19:31

Your not out until your period comes hun xxxx

Brodijen · 05/02/2020 20:54

Thanks hun! When you think you’ll test? Xx

Bl0ndeye · 05/02/2020 22:13

Order some of them wonda tests off amazon cos they have good reviews So I’ll probably test Friday morning cos theirs 20 and i legit won’t be able to wait till sat. Wbu? Xx

Brodijen · 06/02/2020 15:13

AF came today. So sad and disappointed. Best of luck with your journeys gals but I’m out.

PMB123 · 06/02/2020 16:37

Very sorry to hear @Brodijen. At least you're out of the limbo for now. I'm at the point where I want an answer either way so I can get on with things.
@Bl0ndeye, did you cave an do a test? I did one last night, which was stupid and BFN.

itssquidstella · 06/02/2020 17:00

@PMB123 I tested this morning (15dpo) and thought I might have the tiniest squinter, but it was basically negative. So frustrating!

PMB123 · 06/02/2020 17:08

@itssquidstella- frustrating to say the least. Have you had any symptoms? I swear my boobs are bigger- to the point my bra doesn't seem to contain them, and have got dots on the nipples. I feel pressure down low and feel like my uterus is expanding...been falling asleep early and moody. Cried too easily the other day. I thought I had period pains last night, but no AF. Giving it to this weekend, and will WAIT to use FMU on Saturday. My other pregnancies I've gotten a BFP very early on. I'm driving myself crazy over here.

itssquidstella · 06/02/2020 17:25

So frustrating @PMB123!

I feel like i did last time I was pregnant (I miscarried at six weeks at the beginning of January): lots of cm, tired, terrible skin, weeing more. I've also got sore nipples, which I didn't have last time.

I'm convinced I'm pregnant but I'm also convinced it's going to end badly :(

PMB123 · 06/02/2020 17:47

Same @itssquidstella.
I had miscarriage 3 years ago...Baby stopped developing around 6 weeks, but I didn't find out until 8... So I'm definitely wondering if the same thing might be happening...and a reason for BFNs. We only just decided recently to try for one more...but if this is it, and it's a miscarriage, I think I'll be done. Do you have any kids yet?

itssquidstella · 06/02/2020 18:06

@PMB123 no, and I'm 34 so don't have a lot of time to play with if it turns out there is a problem with my fertility.

All my friends have either recently had babies or are pregnant; it's really hard.

itssquidstella · 06/02/2020 18:06

@PMB123 no, and I'm 34 so don't have a lot of time to play with if it turns out there is a problem with my fertility.

All my friends have either recently had babies or are pregnant; it's really hard.

itssquidstella · 06/02/2020 18:07

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage - have you got children?

Bl0ndeye · 06/02/2020 19:42

@brodijen sorry your out hun fingers crossed for next cycle for u xx

Bl0ndeye · 06/02/2020 19:45

Right did both these yesterday top on morning second evening I thort I could see a faint line on the second but then I was like am I just desperate to see a line . Anyway went to throw them away a minute ago and saw the lines really prominent and it's blue so if it's blue is it an Evap ? And how can it be an evap when the exact same test from hours before that one had none on? I'm 3 days late now

Oppinions please am I wishful thinking

5 days late with BFN
5 days late with BFN
calimommy · 06/02/2020 19:52

@Bl0ndeye if they are dry then don't count their result. X

PMB123 · 06/02/2020 20:55

@itssquidstella- I've got 2. Youngest is 9. I'm 44, so we decided to give it it a go before it's too late. 34 is young! Just keep at it, and I'm sure you'll get a BFP soon.
@Bl0ndeye- I don't see the other line :(

itssquidstella · 07/02/2020 07:22

Thanks @PMB123 - I was geared up for it to take a while, but not to get pregnant instantly and then lose it. I think it's harder, in a way - and now it seems to be happening again!

Bl0ndeye · 09/02/2020 11:57

Have I finally got BFP? Adjusted light on pic to show it in more clarity as hard to get it on camera

5 days late with BFN
5 days late with BFN
itssquidstella · 09/02/2020 12:14

@Bl0ndeye I can't see anything but these things are often easier to spot in person than on a photo.