In limbo

[Fifol]

Hi ladies. Reaching out as I'm sure some of you are in the same boat as me or have been. I'm 3 weeks late. Have tested each week, all BFN. I was so sure I had to be pregnant and I'm feeling so disappointed and upset. It's so much harder than I ever thought. We've been trying for 4 months and I know that's not as long as some but still so hard each month to face the disappointment. All I want now is for AF to come so I can start the next cycle and try again and it's so frustrating not knowing when she will turn up or what the hell is going on! Hoping someone can offer some support as feel I'm going mad. Anyway... that's my rant over thanks if you made it to the end of this post x

Hello, my last cycle was 87 days. The time before 39 days. I came off the pill January 2019. This was tough. Especially as we had a family pregnancy announcement and her last period had been the same time as my last one but she was pregnant and I was broken. This month in looking at a 36 day cycle which will be the shortest (unless it doesn't come but I don't think I'll ever get that). I suspect stress for me has been a big factor on that last cycle. Good luck

@Mycrazylife85 86 days omg... I will have cracked up by then. You poor thing family announcements are the worst. My brother in laws girlfriend is due in Feb and literally all I'm getting from that side of the family is you're next, we're waiting for you now. especially because we're recently married it's literally every time I see them and it's very hard! Good luck to you too my love x

@Fifol 😞 I feel for you with that. That's so tricky. The only thing, after several years of harping on about 'it'll be you next', they'll stop. Fingers crossed for you and good luck x