Am I out?

[chlo04]

I think I am 9 days post ovulation today and I've had a negative test. It's likely I'm not pregnant isn't it? :(

I've spent over 2 years trying, ectopic pregnancy, 3 miscarriages, diagnoses with high NK activity.

On a treatment plan for 3 months and I just can't fall pregnant.

We don't have the money for this anymore, I'm wishing I had the 7 months olds I should of this Christmas.. all whilst having to spend it with family who completely forget that this would of been our first Christmas with our babies.

What do I do, I know I need to carry on to give this treatment at least one to. I just feel like I'll never fall pregnant and I'll lifes won't change. Will they?!

Sorry for the moan. I'm just heartbroken at the idea that it's a real possibility we won't ever be a family. I'm only 23 and we have worked so hard to make sure we do things " properly".

We have a beautiful home and it just feels extremely empty this Christmas

9 days is too early. Wait till af is due/late!

@Michellebops I can't because I am on treatment. This is when my clinic told me to test! X

Retest, but 9DPO is definitely too early for some people. I got my BFP 14DPO and it wasn't super dark.

Have some really sensitive tests, like FRER, and test again, maybe try to leave 48 hrs.

Good luck!

Blood test to be 100%

@chlo04 I get that but surely they would have told you to retest as honestly very few get a positive that early. In addition it can depend what kind of test you used. Some are more sensitive than others.

Good luck 💖

@Michellebops

I know,
I do wonder why they make us test so early but he has lots of success so I count on it.

I think I saw a hint of a line on a test this evening ( a cheap pink dye one) but I'll test again in the morning.

I'm also not really this emotionally normally where we tonight I've been throwing a fit and crying my eyes out. I'm just sure something is going on!!

I have everything crossed for you 💖

@Michellebops thank you. Defo out though as I've had period cramps all day today 😓 bloody typical! Xx

I’ve been pregnant many times and earliest I’ve ever had a bfp is 10 dpo and latest 15dpo all healthy babies !
Hcg levels vary for example at 4 w exactly with 1 pregnancy I was 342 and another just 17! All was fine