I need a hug. Possible second miscarriage this year.

[Bananaloaf88]

So I had an early/chemical miscarriage back in July/August (I'm not too sure on the dates).

One week ago I found out I was pregnant after a very long cycle! I had a blood test & have had several positive urine tests. The last one yesterday came back stronger than previous.

Today I woke up to brown discharge & now mid-after noon has progressed to red blood (no clotting). I have no cramping as of such & still have tender boobs & other symptoms.

I know no one can give me answers. But I can't stop crying and just need a digital hug

I have a blood test again next Wednesday so I suppose it is a waiting game now. 🙁

So sorry to hear this - have been through this too and it is just so horrific. I really hope it does work out for you in the future.

I am less hopeful now having had so many mc but I must say that I had a lot of bleeding with my only successful pregnancy as well so it isn't always a bad sign

@Pegase Thank you. It is just the waiting now that I can't stand. I won't find out if it is nothing or something for at least a week.

Keeping everything crossed for you and sending lots of hugs.

Everything crossed for you. I'm not sure if this helps but I had brown discharge that became red bleeding at 7 weeks (with no clotting or cramping) and turns out baby was still OK. I went to the EPU for an emergency scan the next day (had to be referred by GP), is there a way to get referred for a scan in your area so you don't have to wait until next week? Xx

@mummabubs They can't scan yet as I am only around 5 weeks. :-( I am trying to stay positive but it is hard. Xx

Ok i know every pregnancy is different, but if this helps in any way then i'll be happy.

I got my bfp 12 weeks ago, i bled almost instantly for three days. Bright red blood and quite heavy. As i was still testing positive i had blood tests which sometimes did and sometimes didn't double. 3 scans later i am still pregnant, a baby with a hb has been seen twice.

Fx this is just a blip not the end.

Also i have had 2 mmc and 2cp, 1 mc so i have the fear.

So sorry. I've been there. Very very hard.
I hope all will be OK for you now this time or in the end.

Big big hug ❤️thinking of you x

@cookielove This does help a bit. I have just spent all afternoon crying to my mum. She said she is going to stay positive for me.

It can't be fair having two in the space of 6 months...

@Mitsouko67 @TongoP Thank you xxx

@cookielove I hope everything goes well for you from now on. ♥️

@Bananaloaf88 big hugs. I've had three CPs this year so far and it's horrible. I felt devastated, so I know exactly how you feel. Every dream you had when you saw that bfp is ripped away. Be kind to yourself. It may not be over yet

@whyhaveidonethis aw no, that's shit. Have you been able to start looking into the cause now you've had 3?

I have a referral to the gynaecologist but the appointment isn't until February. I am sure it is my age though so not sure there is a lot they can do.

Good luck today bananaloaf

And whyhaveidonethis

Hi, I had two very close together and then I had my daughter, sending you lots of hugs!

I typed a huge reply then it deleted. Long story short, I had a MMC last year. Fell pregnant again. At 6 weeks bled like a period for a week. Started dark then got lighter but no clots. EPU scanned me at 8 weeks and immediately saw a HB. I am now feeding my 10 week old DS.

Sometimes you just bleed. It's a horrible waiting game, do speak to your EPU and see if they will scan you at 8 weeks. Until then take each day as it comes, thinking positive and look after yourself.

Sending you huge hugs and happy baby vibes xxx

@Snowflake9 Thank you that is a reassuring tale. I get my blood HCG results back today, i've started spotting again but it is light brown and mixed with mucus so i'm not too considerned. I'm going to try and take your advice and just take each day as it comes.

It is the hardest thing, the not knowing and unless you have been through it you won't understand.

I used to just mentally tell myself , right, in the next hour you need to do xyz..and broke it down to hours.

I hope your results are promising. Do you have any cramps? Are you feeling unwell? X

@Snowflake9 My results came back at 553 they were 16 on the 1st. So not quite doubling every 48 hours but more than every 72 hours.

I think I might be a week behind where I thought I was. The whole thing is so confusing as I haven't had a period since September. But I definitely conceived on the last fortnight of Oct at some point!

Hey just to update those who gave some support. It turned out I had an ectopic pregnancy in my right tube. Luckily it didn't rupture but I did require surgery to remove the tube.

Oh OP. I am so sorry to hear of your ordeal. My thoughts are with you and your family x

I'm so sorry. That's such a scary situation. I've been through it. Please take all the time you need to recover physically and mentally. It will take time. I found it traumatic.

I had a baby after an ectopic with one tube so I was lucky in that respect.

Rest and feel better.