Anyone 1 or 2dpo approx?? 2ww hello again...

[Sunflower2019]

Just looking for buddies to get me through the tww..

My app says I’m 2dpo but didn’t catch my exact peak just high fertility on clear blue and used cheapies to back up!

Having cramps and sore breasts but could still be ovulation?

Have been trying since around July 💗

@OP that doesn't sound good at all! How awful he's spoiled your day. Hope he's coming to apologise later.

@Beau2019 that would be amazing! But not getting my hopes up yet....

My skin was much better while I was on the pop pill. Once I stopped to ttc spots came back. It's the spots and period cramps that annoy me most about ttc! Sometimes wish I could go back on pop but obv that's not a good idea right now!

@Sunflower2019 that's awful I really hope he does make it better!! I completely understand, I was in an abusive relationship before too. I've had to make my Partner understand over the years my triggers and also that he just needs to be softer in general, which he is a lot better at now he just wasnt used to it in the beginning. Quite militant he is lol ❤

Please try to not be upset 🤗❤🙏 try to explain to him that you feel fragile too, he should take that into account xxx

@Skyla01 god the spots are painful arent they! I'm hoping it's for a better reason than my skin just being a prick I really am lol
How many dpo are you?? Have you any symptoms? Sorry fi you already wrote it x

@Ellsbells112 I'm 13dpo. I've been having cramps / sore lower abdomen, boobs are a bit sore and got a few spots coming up. All feels like AF is imminent. Every time I go to the loo I'm expecting too see AF. Kind of wish she would just hurry up and put me out of my misery. Also on holiday soon so want the heavy flow to have stopped.

Anyone else getting close to AF?

I’m 9dpo, af is due on 12/11, I’m not sure if I have any symptoms been feeling a bit nauseous but I think that may be the weather!

Sorry to hear your DP is being a dick, @Sunflower2019. Had he gotten over his sulk now?

I'm not due AF until the 14th I think (that would be assuming a 28 day cycle), but I'm 10dpo now. I don't have any symptoms except the brewing cold that refuses to show itself and some (TMI) constipation.

I’m battling a cold at the minute too 🙁 I don’t think my bleeding was implantation; it was only there on one toilet trip and there’s been nothing since. I’ve not had cramps since yesterday either. No symptoms at all, except the fact that I’ve gone off coffee (I usually drink 8-10 a day) but that’s probably just the cold.
@Sunflower2019 I hope your OH comes around!

🤷‍♀️ I'm sitting here feeling like I've done 100 sit ups, you know that sort of stretching muscle pains? Not exactly cramps 🧐 I hate this though because I'm like...did this happen the last month? Lol I start doubting myself but it does feel...different? Bah humbug to the 2ww!

Hey girlies, thanks for the messages :) nice having people to talk too! ♥️

@Ellsbells112 I’m sorry to hear that, it is definitely certain things that trigger it for me too, he said I need to grow out of the abuse I had 🙄 I don’t think he understands!! Also I had that feeling like a pulled stomach a few days ago, as it hurt when I moved or sneezed, weird!

I looked at my chart and originally due 11th (af) but if we go by the ovulation strip which was positive on cd18, I have ages like over a week!!!!!!!!! So dunno what to think.. I’ve never had a 32 day cycle so I don’t quite believe it.

I’ve got a really bad back and sciatica at the minute, could be unrelated but could be a symptom, I’m still not convinced...

On the plus side should be collecting a sofa tonight, I must be getting old, collecting sofas on Friday nights instead of going out 😂

@OP sounds like your OH doesn't understand at all. Hopefully that won't happen again.

@Ellsbells112 I know what you mean! My body likes to through in a new symptom each month just to keep me guessing!

I had a terrible sleep last night. As soon as I lay down I felt so hot and my cheeks became flushed. Usually i feel the cold but last night was awful! Of course I was on Google symptom spotting but I think most symptoms for early pregnancy also come up as pmt symptoms. Had a little bit of spotting this morning so expecting full flow AF later today. What a joy the tww and the symptoms are....! Just hope my hot face has gone by tonight I'm knackered already.

@Skyla01

Yes all symptoms can go either way so. One of us truly know! I even took my temp this morning to compare to yesterday and it’s gone down a little.. weirdo 😂

I think I’m out though, have a hunch! Off shopping for a jacket today so should keep me happy for the day.

If we don’t get our bfps, one of us could start a new cycle thread? Be nice to all stay in touch as I want to know how you all get on :) xx

It would be good to stay together - even as our cycles diverge in timing. Hopefully we'll all get bfps and stay together on a July 2020 baby thread.

I have an abusive ex too. I know DP finds it hard to understand how I respond to things around that, and he has managed to well and truly put his foot in it a couple of times. He wants to understand though and listens when I explain.

Your symptoms sound miserable @Skyla01. I hope they pass soon. Could it be a bug of some sort?

I think the fact it was only one tiny bit of blood might be more indicative of implantation bleeding than less @amysara24. There would necessarily be loads of it.

My cold still hasn't manifested. I'm just a bit snuffly. Toddler DSS has a truly rotten cold (he was so miserable when DP picked him up from the childminder) so maybe that'll inspire mine to do its worst. I woke up to a bit of muscle strain feeling cramping too but (definitely TMI) I'm pretty certain it's related to the current sluggish state of my bowels rather than anything else.

I'm (possibly over optimistically) taking constipation to be a good sign. We've had two really good bits of news this week (yesterday in particular) so DP is very hopeful that a BFP will make 3 for November. 😁

What kind of jacket are you going to buy, @Sunflower2019?

@Sunflower2019 well that's not helpful at all! You cant just get over abuse, it doesn't work like that. Unfortunately some people just dont understand and cant carry even for 5 minutes what you carry every single day. They can even make things worse with how they speak about your experiences, its hard, but sometimes you have to keep certain things to yourself so you dont get more scarring. Obvi bit difficult when you're in s relationship with them though! ❤ try and think of a way that he might understand better? Hope you're feeling better today xx

@Skyla01 the constant being on edge in regards symptoms is crazy I cant bloody stand it! I'm so on edge this month too like I literally know if my period comes I will be having a big cry because I really wanted it this month for a July baby, my OH birthday is in July too so would be nice 🤞for us all!

@WooMaWang what a lovely idea - I am totally up for next months thread too. It's been lovely going through this with others :)

@Sunflower2019I know the feeling - I also had a very abusive ex (he got time for it) and although it doesn't really bother me, my OH doesn't get it. I also went through a bit of a tough time as a child all the way up to my 20's with being forced out my dads side of the family and the emotional abuse and bullying I got from my step mum for 20 odd years - this hurts me the most and my OH doesn't get it. He went through an even more awful time as a kid and he thinks just because he deals with and and doesn't let it effect him (he actually deals with it awfully by just ignoring it) that I must do the same. We all react different and partners should get this. Men in general are a different breed and if I am honest, I couldn't deal with a super sensitive one anyway so I should stop complaining!!

Symptom spot day 3 for me - I was having mind cramps again this morning. Not the usual AF cramps but similar. Last time I was PG I had craps for a week around AF and kept running to the loo to check - turned out I was PG soooo there is hope for us all! AF symptoms don't always mean AF.

Mind cramps?? Yes my mind is going MAD however I did mean 'mild' cramps hahaha

@beau2019 hahahaha mind cramps!! Yes definitely got those!! Fx for you chick!
Yes indeed, similar to you my OH didn't have a great childhood and deals with it by ignoring it - which isnt dealing with it at all and it shows.
Those crampy feelings from.yesterday have left me, just lots of trapped wind during the night.

Thank you girls for understand :)

I’ve bought a cheap fluffy jacket.. I love those! Currently having a coffee with mum in cafe Nero.

Just had a call to say all my results came back normal and haven’t changed since 2016! So try to relax she said!

Have actually bought a couple of Xmas bits, feeling festive!

Hope everyone is having a Lovely day!

Anyone testing or due af today or tomorrow? X

Making the most of my weeks holiday

@Ellsbells112 your OH sounds just like mine 😂 however he think he's deals wonderfully with his past (most certainly doesn't and we can all see it). Never mind - there's no changing him!

@Sunflower2019 woohoo! Good news! Now you can relax.

I'm going to try and hold out testing until next weekend at the very latest. I'm so excited to find out which one of us on here gets their BFP!!

That's brilliant about the results @Sunflower2019. It sounds like a nice day for you.

I've just taken a long lunch break at work (I'm going to be doing stuff til 6 and I started at 8, so I don't feel in the least bit guilty) to do 2 hours of Pilates. It was great. I was on my own for the first class so I effectively got a 1:1 session for free (I have a studio membership so I can do as many classes as I like). 😁

AF has arrived for me. Good luck to everyone else, fingers crossed for you!

Hi guys I'm also in my tww and I am 10dpo. Had ALL of the symptoms up until yesterday when I felt absolutely normal and symptom free. I felt abit sick this morning but that's subsided now I feel normal :( I was really hopeful but now I'm feeling abit down. Af is due Wednesday. Anyone else in the same boat? It's my first month trying but it's so hard not to get my hopes up xx

@Skyla01 I'm so sorry the witch got you. hope you get your bfp next cycle 🤞

@SarahMS Hey! welcome! I'm due AF Wednesday too! I was feeling hopeful but the closer it gets the more I'm doubting it's my month. So hard to tell with symptoms for pregnancy and AF being so similar 🙄

@KikiMoon13 hopefully we both get bfps!! And the witch doesn't arrive on Wednesday!! I have ordered some frer yesterday on amazon prime and just got an email that they've been delivered! I don't wanna test and get a BFN but I also can't wait ! When are you testing? Xxx