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Need some opk advice... see pic!

52 replies

Sunflower2019 · 05/10/2019 08:47

Would of normally ovulated by now but had a dark opk on the 9th... but not positive and have since been testing and still all negative... starting to worry as I’ve either missed it or not ovulated? Last couple of days, I’ve been feeling wet down below, cramps and sore breasts, took an opk (my last one) last night and still a line but not dark enough for positive!

Now I’ve confused my cycle.... here is my opks from this month...

Currently on CD15 by my Premom app.. period due around 20th of the month! Xx

Need some opk advice... see pic!
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30somethingandtired · 12/10/2019 10:20

I'm 12DPO now @Sunflower2019 have need getting BFNs all week so was getting pretty downhearted but this was a lovely morning ☺️. It's taken 18months.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you. 💕

Sunflower2019 · 12/10/2019 13:36

@30somethingandtired oh wow that’s given me hope! I had a breakdown this morning as dp not taking this who conceiving thing seriously and we’ve only been trying since June but automatically thought I would fall so quickly and then find out dp semen is fine but his morphology is low which is prob why it’s taking longer, also at 32 I know I’m still young but it’s been 11 years since I had my dd and seems so much harder!!

Sorry for the rant 😂 You’ve given me hope though!! X

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30somethingandtired · 13/10/2019 07:32

It's such a frustrating process isn't it @Sunflower2019 , and even the loveliest most supportive blokes don't seem to get the pain and frustration. Hopefully it will be your turn for a BFP soon x

Nic555 · 13/10/2019 14:18

@30somethingandtired congratulations

@Sunflower2019 not in my FW yet im Cycle day ten today. Might start my OPK in a couple of days as seem to be getting a bit more cervical fluid today so hopefully ovulate next weekend 🤞 been a bit stressed in work and really hoping it doesn't effect try cycle. Trying my best to relax. When is AF due? X

Sunflower2019 · 13/10/2019 19:26

@Nic555 af due today or tomorrow based on when I supposedly ovulated but nothing as yet.. have done an ic and not a hint of a line so just waiting now for af! Good luck to you.. I’m hoping next month will be my month x

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Nic555 · 13/10/2019 22:04

@Sunflower2019 this could still be your month. Not out until Af arrives. I'm already dreading my next 2WW 🙈 dreading another AF but at same time this would be the worse month to get pregnant as I have a holiday booked for next July for my mums 60th xx

Sunflower2019 · 14/10/2019 08:24

@Nic555 another bfn for me this morning, I’m not upset as I was pretty certain my ovulation was messed up this month! Prob stress! Have bought some vitamins off line so thinking may help.

I know we are planning a hol for Greece next year and I’m trying to work out when I could go and it’s hard as we don’t know how long it’s all going to take etc xxx

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Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 11:53

Hey girls,

Soooo maybe I didn’t ovulate this month, no af and bfn on these wondfos... 🤷‍♀️

My monthly cycles are normally easy by this month not sure what’s happened, as if I ovulated on cd10, I’d of had af by now!

Xx @Nic555 @30somethingandtired @Lizziejayne13

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Nic555 · 15/10/2019 15:14

@Sunflower2019 all I can think of is that maybe you ovulated the 13th and AF not due for another couple of days and too soon to show a BFP.

Must be so annoying being late. Are you getting the clear blue for next cycle?

Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 16:16

@Nic555 yes maybe, it’s so odd! Thought I’d see a squinter but not sure these wondfos are very sensitive either. We will see! How are you? Xx

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Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 16:17

@Nic555 I have clear blue digital but was static the whole time so gave up, have purchased clear blue advanced but not sure where to get refills?? Xx

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Nic555 · 15/10/2019 18:40

You have to get a new packet which is annoying but I think if you finish the pack you have to use the same holder for the rest of that cycle as it logs your LH so that it can recognise your surge otherwise it doesn't work properly. So same holder but new packet of sticks then next cycle use the new holder with the sticks.

I've just started testing now no smiley face yet which I wasn't expecting but wanted to start so it can recognise an increase. Hoping I get a flashy by end of week think I might as getting more CF last couple of days x

Nic555 · 15/10/2019 18:41

@Sunflower2019 sorry forgot to tag u x

Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 20:50

@Nic555 think I’ve got a squinter but maybe I’m losing it 😂

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Nic555 · 15/10/2019 20:51

@Sunflower2019 ah really. Exciting. Post a pic. Although I've not got great line eyes x

Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 20:55

I’ll try send it in morning or if I can sneak off.. maybe I have line eyes 😂

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Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 20:58

It’s a wondfo and haven’t had a squinter until tonight... worrying it’s all in my head 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 21:00

What do you think?

Need some opk advice... see pic!
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Nic555 · 15/10/2019 21:05

@Sunflower2019 I think I see something 😊 I'm no expert though but I do see something and quite often don't see anything. So could be a good sign. Do you have any other tests? X

Sunflower2019 · 15/10/2019 21:07

Theses aren’t even sensitive so maybe if I get a frer will be better? Dunno if I want to know now 😂 x

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Nic555 · 15/10/2019 21:16

I know it's hard to not get your hopes up but wanting to know at same time. I'd get a frer if I was you xx

Mycrazylife85 · 15/10/2019 21:22

@Sunflower2019 I'd dream of that little squinter. I see it and I think that's positive, but agree a FRER will seal the deal 🤞

Nic555 · 16/10/2019 07:39

@Sunflower2019 let us know how u get on today. I was excited this morning just for my flashing smily 😂 xx

Sunflower2019 · 16/10/2019 07:47

Well got up to test and after a restless night and I’m bleeding.. so that’s confusing! Guess it must of been a dodgy test 😫 xxx

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Nic555 · 16/10/2019 11:55

@Sunflower2019 oh no. How do you feel about it? Are you still bleeding?