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Evap or positive??

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hannah5033 · 28/09/2019 06:56

Hiya If I go by my ovulation I'm 3 days late for my period but if I go from my period I'm due in 2 days 🤷🏻‍♀️
My ex had been joking about piercing the condoms and when I'd realised how much thought he had put into it I did some cheap eBay tests, ALL had faint lines! (3 days ago)

I've been having frequent flushes and waves of nausea the past couple days (both my children I've had sickness before even a bfp) and my test this morning was really faint but this afternoon was a clear second pink line which showed up the second I dipped the test and just got darker!

I did a frer a couple hours after and no line 🤦🏻‍♀️
Could it have been an Evap line rather than a positive??

Any input will be hugely appreciated!...oxox

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Ozziewozzie · 28/09/2019 07:07

Yes it’s cetyainly possible but would help if you are able to post a picture.

hannah5033 · 28/09/2019 07:16

I have tried but unfortunately this site won't let me with a new account 🤦🏻‍♀️
Is there a way I can get around that??...oxox

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flissity · 28/09/2019 07:19

What brand was the first test? If it was ASDA- they are terrible for false positives

Bezalelle · 28/09/2019 07:29

Do you think your ex has tricked you? What do you mean about the condoms?

hannah5033 · 28/09/2019 07:29

I haven't used Asda tests I've a past of false results with those too haha!
I used a mix of tests I got from eBay and some of my friends from amazon...got faint lines on home bargains tests too but nothing on FRER which is what confused me most I would only trust a main brand or blood test, I'd expect dodgy tests otherwise...oxox

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hannah5033 · 28/09/2019 07:33

Bezalelle yes I was so careful using condoms and even stopped sex when I realised he had timescales about us moving together and how I'd depend on him :(
Not something I want to risk because he is incredibly unreliable with our current children and I sure don't want any more yet.
And the final time we had sex he said 'oh I'll check that might have ripped' though I know it hadn't it's been worrying me and the tests haven't helped...oxox

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Ozziewozzie · 28/09/2019 10:42

I appreciate you need to work out if you’re currently pregnant, but I think also, you have reservations with this man you’re sharing a bed with.
He’s unreliable with your children and your instincts are that he’s trying to trap you.
If you find out you’re not pregnant and you chose to stay with this guy then I would seriously consider contraception yourself, ie pill or coil etc.
If you are pregnant then you’ve likely to have had this forced in you. Physical aspects aside, you have to consider just how awful this could all be for you long term. Tied to a guy who’s tricked you in an awful way. He’s obviously insecure and needs you to be stuck with him.

I would seriously consider getting him out of my life for good if you were to find out for sure he’d been popping jokes in condoms.

Ozziewozzie · 28/09/2019 10:43

HOLES not JOKES. Bloomin sausage fingers!!!!

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