In a trying cycle and feeling emotional!

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Hi everybody,
My husband and I have been trying for a baby for three months with no luck(I'm 31 and he is 35). I got my period this morning and haven't stopped crying all day! I know it's stupid and I shouldn't expect it to happen straight away but I feel like my mind is on overdrive and it's all I can think about. I feel like it is such a long time between each cycle, I'm obsessing over it and just waiting to find out of I'm pregnant and worrying that there is something wrong! Does anybody else feel like this? I dont want to have this mindset until it (hopefully happens!). Any tips or ideas to put my mind at ease?

Thank you all in advance x x

Sorry I have no advice but wanted to let you know you're not alone, I'm exactly the same! I'm about to get my period (third month trying too) and I'm already feeling sorry for myself and I'm dreading starting it all again next month. The cycle of worrying and hoping is exhausting!

I just try and put things into perspective, liking reminding myself its still early days and that negative thinking is bound to have an impact on conceiving. I'm trying to focus on the here and now and make plans so I have things to look forward to.

It's easier said than done though as I'm not sure about you but I feel like my life is on hold until I get pregnant and I really expected I would be by now(!!). I really do understand how you're feeling.

Hopefully someone else has some better advice or success stories!

I can't tell you how much this has helped to know that I'm not alone! Thank you. Big fingers crossed for you x x