Tww x2

[AutismFamily]

@helensss @peassando @sauty @ripleysfirst hey ladies the thread says it's been closed when I tried to reply so started a new one as didn't want to lose contact with you all hope that's ok. Xxx

[AutismFamily]

@Ripleysfirst u should get some first response early detection they are the best ones Hun xxx

[Ripleysfirst]

@autismfamily well the ones I have are the Clearblue early detection ones! But if both are negative I’ll shell put for a first response before accepting the inevitable.

[Helensss]

@ripleysfirst I got the faintest faintest positive on clear blue at 13dpo but super strong on first response so I’d wait a bit perhaps even though it’s sooo hard x

[Ripleysfirst]

@helensss I’m trying so hard to just wait for the first day of my supposed period. I’m pretty regular so if AF doesn’t come that day I’ll be doing alllllll the tests! I’m currently 9 dpo and a week to my period so by then I should be 16dpo and the test should be conclusive!

[Roxybaby12]

@Ripleysfirst bless you!! I know how hard and long that wait is too!! Lol.. you’ll need to take up a new hobby for a few days! Keep strong-you can do it!

Thanks for the kind words ladies.. the ectopic was pretty rough and lost not only my tube and baby but also my job! But I do already have two beautiful daughters so I’m already lucky. I just don’t feel ready to throw in the towel yet!!
A few times today I’ve had slight cramps and twinges and thought af had arrived but when I checked...nothing!! My first two were easy and straight forward! The ectopic I didn’t show positive until 18dpo on a first response so holding out a couple more days!! My longest cycle has been 31 days so far this year so this adds to my need to wait a couple more days.

Hoping everyone’s feeling ok and had a good day? Xx

[Helensss]

Arghhh a bit more brown spotting, just noticed when went to the loo 😭

[Sauty]

Hiya everyone I’m back again!!
Just to let you know I stood my ground, got a Frer and also a negative result, so my mind can now be rested and for the record - DONT USE First Step tests from Amazon, the 10miu ones as they clearly mess with peoples minds giving potential positives when they are negative. I’m so relieved that in a way it’s not positive because I feel like I actually have a definitive answer. Well in so much as I trust the Frer brand. I’m now on day 35 of a cycle so I’ll just plod along, no stress no nothing. 👏

[AutismFamily]

@sauty I think me and u must both keep getting these dud test xx

[Roxybaby12]

Hi ladies, sorry to hear it was negative @Sauty but as you said-at least you have an answer now! I bought loads of these cheapies that all looked like faints positives! it’s awful!! This is hard enough without crappy tests! X

[Sauty]

Very true @Roxybaby I feel like a weight has been lifted, and that can only be a good thing.

[AutismFamily]

Hey ladies how are we all? Any updates on anything @sauty @helenss @ripleysfirst xxx

[AutismFamily]

How are u? @roxybaby12 xx

[Ripleysfirst]

Hi @AutismFamily I’m doing ok, no symptoms to speak of... spent the evening out with friends, had a lovely time, home now in bed with the cats, have to admit it’s kinda nice having the whole bed to myself How are you doing?

[Roxybaby12]

Hi @AutismFamily I’ve been having some slightly brown spotting but only when I wipe (sorry tmi) I think it’s af as now 19dpo (roughly). But on cd32 which is would be my longest cycle yet!!! Was getting cramps and boobs not so sore. Obviously haven’t bothered to test-I don’t think implantation spotting would show this late.

How have you been? Xx

[Helensss]

@AutismFamily I had a tiny bit of spotting on Thursday afternoon but it stopped so I think it’s fine, 7 weeks today!!! Such a rollercoaster this beginning bit after my losses but I’m feeling positive, how are you doing? Xx

[Helensss]

@Ripleysfirst glad you had a good evening out and hope you starfished the bed!!

[Roxybaby12]

@helensss ahh bless you-wishing a very happy and healthy 9 months!

Af is here! It’s only when I wipe at the mo bits it’s red now. We have a holiday booked for next year so will have to wait til nov/Dec now to try again! Don’t want to be that close to due date while abroad.
Anyways, thank you for your support ladies. Take care and keep strong. Xx

[Helensss]

@roxybaby12 oh that’s a bit rubbish but least you know what’s happening and November isn’t too far to go again.

Thank you for well wishes, been a long time coming so hoping it continues! Xx

[Sauty]

@Helensss, keep looking at the chart that @peasando sent you, you’ve come such a long way already! We’re all behind you and I just know this is your time. Sending lots of positive vibes to you.
I’ve woken today with the most horrendous headache, feel like I’ve been hit with a baseball bat. I used to get heads like this before when I had my period, it’s one of those where you can barely open your eyes because of the pain. For info: if anyone else has these, try Wassan Magnesium OK tablets from Boots, take one a day throughout the month and if possible combine them with eating Toast for breakfast with Whole Earth Organic Crunchy Peanut Butter. A nurse I worked with when I worked in Prison Education Dept told me this and I swear it works!!! The Wassen tablets aren’t cheap but I never had any pain after taking them. Obviously I need to take my own advise! 😂😂😂

[Ripleysfirst]

I need to get some magnesium! I only had 2 glasses of red wine last night (not usually my style) because I just feel so uncomfortably full...
And this morning I still feel so full! Never really felt this before.

[Ripleysfirst]

I know I shouldn’t be drinking at all while waiting for the bfp but it’s been such a rough week with the breakup and all...

[AutismFamily]

Hi all sorry I have been the same as @sauty banging head. Cold like symptoms that come and go and I also got sore boobs and chest area but I have been working out so don't know if it is that but my sense of smell is in overdrive. It's all probably nothing. @ripleysfirst bless ya Hun I was the same the bed was so big but also it was nice to be able to star fish in the middle lol. @Roxybaby12 brown is classed as old blood and as u said it might not be implation but it could be u just knocked Something in there it doesn't necessarily mean af is on her way keep positive. @Helensss oh bless ya Hun this baby wants to keep us on our toes but I too have a good feeling for u and this bubba how are u feeling in urself?
@peasando how's our little girl doing lol it's like your having her for all of us 😍😆 xxx

[Helensss]

@Ripleysfirst I wouldn’t worry about a couple of glasses of wine. My last miscarriage was beginning of August so there was no way I thought I’d be pregnant again by the end of August... But I was, my husband and I were camping and had a few drinks every evening! Was so shocked to get a positive when I got back! I think it must happen a lot.

How are you @sauty? Hope the headaches better! Thank you for your nice words always!

@AutismFamily how are you doing? Im feeling ok, wel actually really sick, faint and tired but that’s a good thing! Had to traipse round with my friend looking for wedding dresses for her yesterday, I just wanted to lie down on the shop floor 😂 xx

[AutismFamily]

Hi @helensss I'm not to bad been feeling really meh ATM don't know why. Xxx

[Ripleysfirst]

Sorry to hear that @AutismFamily - some days are just a bit pants. I’m having AF cramps today, no AF due til Thursday but it’s all feeling super familiar here:(