So as of today I'm on cycle 12 😠GP has said she's happy to refer us to the fertility clinic whenever we're ready. We were thinking trying a few more months before this. Also, very excitingly, we got engaged on Monday! Now wondering what to do first. In reality we need to save for the wedding and it'd be in a couple of years, minimum. But what do we do about the baby situation?! Quite obviously, since we've already been trying, it wouldn't concern us to have a baby out of wedlock. It'd be nice to have our child there which would be potentially pushing it back further. But then it'll be harder to save when/if we do have a baby...
What would you do?!