Sperm donor

[Kaylee1]

Has anyone on here ever used a speed donor? After being in a relationship for 16 years and allowing my ex to cheat on me time and time again, feeling worthless, and being treated like dirt I can honestly say I don’t want another man I don’t want a relationship I just wanna be on my own raising my son. But I’ve always wanted another baby, to give my son a sibling but I didn’t want another baby while in the joke of a relationship I was in. My son is 10 and I don’t want to wait any longer. If anyone here has any advice I’d really appreciate it. TIA

I dont think they r allowed to disclose the donor are they?
I'm not sure how i feel about this morally, i feel like every child deserves to know who their father is, and if that wont be disclosed, i personally wouldnt do it. I watch paternity court on utube, and the sad stories of children searching for their fathers breaks my heart.

I would strongly advise you to give someone else a chance, one bad apple doesnt represent all men. And you deserve to be in a happy relationship.

If it's something you want to explore there are a fair few Facebook groups directed at donors and recipients. I've not had personal experience but I gather that some of the donors are open to their identity being known and future contact.
Best of luck x

I agree with everything @Hannah021 has said just because you don't need a father for your child doesn't mean that a child doesn't need a father

In the UK if done through the proper channels a child can find out their donor information when they reach 18 I believe and can contact them but the donor has no legal rights

If not done 'through proper channels', ie fertility clinic, the donor will have parental rights. He may not choose to avail of them, but he could. Any 'contract' through a donor found over the internet is not legally binding and isn't worth the paper it's written on.