Feeling very disheartened ttc

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I’m on cd6 cycle 12. I had a mmc during cycle 8 in April and have had longer cycles since my surgical management. I ovulated last cycle on cd21 when I ovulated before mmc on cd18. I’ve just got back from holiday so I didn’t feel too disappointed by getting bfn’s when I was away but now that I’m back I just feel stuck. Each cycle I have the hope that it’s going to happen and then it doesn’t. I’m finding ttc so hard and just feeling totally fed up like it will never happen. Any words of wisdom? ☹️

I feel for you. I'm only on month two and can already imagine how hard it must be. What you're feeling is completely natural. On all the posts I've seen people say a lot that it's the month they relaxed and didn't really try that it happened. Easier said than done though. Have you been to the doctors yet? Just because it's taking time doesn't mean it'll never happen for you. Try to stay positive I'm sure you'll have a beautiful baby before long. Xx

I'm in my tww for cycle 12, it's tough 💔 I'm sorry to hear about your mmc.

I've no real words of wisdom other than keep Going, our time will come eventually x

@Nic555 I definitely wasn't relaxed when we did conceive 😂 think we had dtd 10 times in total! I went to the doctors after my mmc. As I'm under 35 you need to wait 12 months before they will do anything (or most likely to tell you to keep trying), and they said my 12 months reset in April from the mmc so I can't go back until April 2020, even though I started ttc in June 2018.

@Ree91 thank you for your words. It's such a challenging time.

We've been TTC no.2 for 1 year. Can't conceive naturally so it's been 1 IVF and two embryo transfers that failed this time. Have another embryo transfer, then hubby wants to try 3 IUIs, then we agreed another 2 rounds of IVF. I feel pretty disheartened as well. Stressed, sad, anxious, annoyed. This journey can be tough but let me tell you that when it finally works and you hold your beautiful baby in your arms, it's all worth it! Every last tear. It will happen for you too. It's an emotional investment worth the trouble I promise :-)

I've been trying for 18 cycles so I know how your feeling.

I would suggest going to the doctors and seeing what they say, as you conceived in April although it didn't progress, they probably won't do the cd21 bloods and SA analysis, but they maybe able to give you something else. I've heard people who've had a mc get drugs to boost hormones etc.