So confused

[Mummylanie3]

Found out I was pregnant in march then on 5th July blead heavy went to epu was told I'd had a misscarrige and period would start in next 2-8 weeks anyway I've had no period took a test today and it's positive clear as day but I've not had sex since 4 weeks before the misscarrige as we split up I've rang epu and told them they said I can't go to them as I'm down as having a misscarrige so need to go to doctors for bloods and go from there I know I can't have got caught pregnant since and I've done 12 tests all positive but surely they were right when they said I misscarried

Anyone

Oh hun I don't know but definitely ring the docs xxx

Did they give you a scan to say the miscarriage was complete in july? That’s crazy sorry I’ve no advice other than to follow up with your doc ASAP x

Also did you take a negative test after the miscarriage usually the recommend confirming after 2 weeks x

No no scan they said because my HCG was so low I wasn't pregnant never had a negative test even this weekend still positive . I rang epu and she told me to go to doctors for a blood test so I rang them and I'm booked in at 3.40 today

That’s crazy, hope you find out some more info today at your appointment x

If you were pregnant in March but miscarried in July did they not do any follow up with you?! That seems crazy to me as you would have been at least 4 months!
Could it have been a twin pregnancy maybe?! I hope you get the answers you need.

Sorry it should have say may I found out 2nd may I was pregnant xx

Back from doctors they took blood did a pregnancy test which was positive she's getting midwife to ring me tomorrow once blood results are back . Doctors was not happy as they said epu should have given me a appointment for two week after not just given me a card for counciling she said they was happy just with urine test but bloods will be certain said they would get me in for a scan next week to check everything

@Mummylanie3 fingers crossed for you that you are still pregnant, I can't believe they have left you without a follow up keep us in the loop xxx

I know I went to a&e on Friday 5 cos I was bleeding and clots they took bloods and booked me in for epu on the Monday went on Monday she said my bloods show I'm not pregnant as HCG was low and I would stop bleeding after a week or 2 I told her I stopped on Friday the bleeding only lasted 6 hours and she just gave me a card for a support group. My doctor said I should have been offered a follow up he looked on my notes and they said discharged no further action I just worry is I've drank smoked and not ate right these past 8 weeks as they said I'd misscarried

Try not to worry. Lots of people don’t know they’re pregnant early and drink and smoke. I really hope all works out for you. X

Bloods came back HCG is 117000 got a scan next week to check baby is fine

Wow!!!! @Mummylanie3 that is crazy. I’m sure your feeling totally overwhelmed. How awful for them to tell you that and for them not to check and make sure. I really hope your scan goes well xx

Heads all over the place don't know what I'm going to tell my older 2 kids as they knew I was pregnant and misscarried and now what do I say well actually hospital got it wrong I'm still having a baby. Everything's just a mess me and my partner split week before misscarrige so not only am I going through all this I'm going through it alone

@Mummylanie3 OMG bet your great is all over the place! I'm so sorry you have been put through this! hope everything from here on goes ok for you and the baby is ok.

Xxxxxx

@hayleyd84 thank you xx

Hi Mummylanie3 - I want to congratulate you on your pregnancy, and send you my sympathy for the poor care you received. It's best to try to focus on the positives that can come from this situation because positivity is good for mind and body. Take peace in knowing that you can only control what happens from today as yesterday is a written chapter. Treat yourself and your future baby with love and choose healthy living from now onwards. However if you'd like to let the CQC help other women avoid a similar incident of poor care you can contact them via

www.cqc.org.uk/contact-us/report-concern/report-concern-if-you-are-member-public

Maybe ask the midwives if any support group or pregnancy groups near you to help you stay positive and learn strategies for emotional well-being. If life gives you lemons, make lemonade! All the best x

Wow that is incredible op I'm sure your dis near me then I'm 8th January? I found out week before May the 3rd I'm 21 weeks or is my maths wrong 😂

@sodrained I'm due Jan 20th