I really find it difficult to post this so please bear with me.
I’ll start at the beginning(ish) we lost a pregnancy early this year so we’ve been trying again since then but a wee pattern is emerging......
We have quite a healthy sex life so perhaps the title is misleading as before and after our FW there is no issue but every month with our fail my fiancé seems to be unable to ejaculate and the past two nights has actually lost his erection during sex.
We have tried everything, we’ve tried not telling him it’s the FW, we’ve tied only just letting him know when it starts and we’ve tried keeping him as involved as possible and showing him all temperatures and OPKs - we even tried not tracking at all (although I still knew when my FW window was with body changes and he didn’t).
I’ve recently been checked out by my GP and my only issue is stress so I’ve started reiki, I’ve suggested that he try something along those lines too but his suggestions is getting some little blue pills.
I’m even suggesting that we give up for just now but he doesn’t want to do that either so I’m really worried about my next FW as it falls during our wedding week next month (I’m actually predicted to ovulate on our wedding day).
As a result my stress is just increasing so I’ve managed to persuade him to call his Dr but I know he still feels reluctant to do that.
I don’t know what to do or suggest any more so that’s why I’m posting here.
Has anyone else been in our shoes? What do you suggest.