Hi,
I'm not sure if this is in the right forum but I'm hoping for some advice please!
I'm 25 and my partner is 30, we're both keen to start a family and want 2 or 3 kids but I have only really just started my career and am still at the bottom of the ladder. I'm worried that if I choose to have a baby soon I won't be able to get back in work as it's a very competitive industry and so essentially choosing to have a child might also be choosing to kill my career goals.
Another factor in play is that my parents are both experiencing health issues and I really want my parents around when I have my child/ren and will be devastated if I wait and something happens which means they won't be with me.
I know that this is ultimately my (& my partner's) decision to make but I was wondering if there is anyone who has been in a similar situation who could give some advice? For more context, we are not yet married and have only been together for 2 years but we both know that this is it for us.
Essentially, we want kids but feel we should have them sooner than ideal because of a number of factors.
Thanks!