Dusting myself off and trying again after a miscarriage

[Ermmmmidunno]

I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks on Wednesday. I’m obviously still bleeding so it’s too soon atm. I just have an urge to be pregnant again.

My BMI is too high atm (not obese but borderline) and I don’t drink enough water. My diet starts today and I’m trying to get healthier.

But I feel so pessimistic. I am so lucky to already had one DC (who took a year to conceive so not forever but a long year when I was trying! I also have gynaecological issues) but I’m so scared to have a miscarriage again.

Any words of wisdom?

I totally understand your need to be pregnant again. In all honesty take time out for yourself and come to terms with your loss.

Allow your cycle to return and when you feel ready start trying again ❤️

You've just lost your baby. Please look after yourself and take some time to grieve.

Thanks both.

I just feel so miserable today. Only thing I can think would help would be getting pregnant again

I totally understand and I'm not saying you're wrong however it is totally raw and you're about to go through mix of emotions over the next few weeks/months.

Talk to your partner/friends even on here. Lots on here understand.

Have some wine and a good cry if you need to.

Much love ❤️

Sending you lots of love 💕. My advice for what it's worth is take the time you feel you need to process your loss if you're ready to try again now go for it but be prepared your body may not have caught up with your mind. My Gyne has told me the chances of another miscarriage within 6 months of one are vvv low - I'm 1 month in so we'll see.