Hey guys, I'll try to keep this short. I'm not looking for answers, I know I just need to wait and see I just want to discuss this really.
So I've had a copper coil for approx 4 months. I was trying not to have hormones anymore but i found i was having problems with spots and greasy hair so I decided to go back on the pill mid cycle about 6 weeks ago.
I'm due my period Fridayish. And approximately when I would have ovulated my partner and I had sex (as well as on various other days surrounding).
Anyway I wouldnt have thought anything of it but a few days ago I started getting what looked like implantion bleeding and mild cramps (it was like jelly cm with blood streaks and pinky bits) i thought it was strange and I just had this strange feeling about it so I checked if there was more blood inside my vagina and in doing so I felt that my coil strings felt much longer. Google told me it may have dislodged.
So I was thinking what if that was implantation bleeding, but it must be impossible being on the pill (that worked for me for years) and having a coil surely... Anyway I used an Internet cheapie I had in the cupboard this morning and when in the light I could see a very very faint line, but as I remember from my son, with these ones a lines a line right, even if very faint (plus it was 2 days early and I wee and drink in the night so it's not concentrated). I've had spotting today, not sure if that means anything - could be due to coil moving, could be ill miscarry, maybe I'm not actually pregnant at all... My partner thinks the test is wrong, I don't think that really happens with the little pink dye ones?
Im going to the Dr's tomorrow as I'm off work and I know I'm not going to know anything yet but I just wanted to talk about it
I have a son and my partner doesn't want kids really.
We've not been together very long really and we've been really enjoying our freedom when my sons with his dad, I don't want to loose that time yet, I want to have fun as I was a young mum.
I also appreciate having more time just me and my son and I don't want another yet if at all.
But equally I feel like if a baby got through two lots of contraception its gotta be pretty meant to be and that I shouldn't mess with fate.
I love my partner and we both have discussed how we want to be a permenant thing so I'm not worried about that, he's also being very supportive.
I know I may miscarry or it may be ectopic.
And of course maybe the line was an evap or some thing... I'll have to test again.
Anyway I just don't know what to do if I am or if its ridiculous to think it's possible I am?!