Hi, I haven't posted here before, but I wanted to find out what other people's experiences of getting investigations done by their GP have been.
Basically I am 38 and have been TTC #2 for nearly 2 years. After about a year I went to my GP and she arranged for a SA test for DH and a blood test for me. The blood test I had done was not on any particular day of the cycle and as far as I can see was just to determine whether I was approaching the menopause or not. When these tests came back OK the GP basically said it was probably down to my age and we should keep trying, however we could be referred if we liked but were unlikely to get very far on the NHS. After thinking about it we asked to be referred privately. I assumed this was for further investigations but we then ended up with a consultation at an assisted conception clinic, where the consultant actually advised that I should have further tests done. However since it was an assisted conception clinic they didn't do test there, so he sent me back to my GP.
On asking the GP if I could have these tests done, basically day 2/3 , 21 and 25 blood tests she said that they wouldn't normally do these on the NHS at this stage. It then turned out she was happy to do them if I paid (£20 each) for them.
Now I'm not really quibbling about £20 and I certainly agree that someone like me with a child already shouldn't get IVF on the NHS, but I didn't think it was unreasonable to expect the basic investigations and that she should have suggested them a bit earlier. Not only this but it seems wrong to me to send us off on the path to an invasive procedure like IVF without having checked that there's not something wrong that could more easily be put right. Also I'm worried that if there is something wrong in the blood tests it's going to be very difficult to get the GP to do anything about it with the response I've had so far. The whole experience has left me feeling very frustrated and powerless.
So after that long post my actual question is have others in their late 30s or TTC #2 had similar experiences with their GPs, is this normal and what can I do about it?