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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Lottiepink · 17/07/2019 22:54

Hope you all don't mind me starting this one off, but last one was nearly full... already,
Hi to all the newbies ☺️ sorry for everyone I missed, just went through some of the recents, so please mark your place 😊
I try to keep up mused but it moves so fast 🤣

@LokiCat
@AysLon
@LikeTheFruit
@ValidUser
@MrsH497
@ELW85
@Lozzlepop
@Larrydavid
@Anny27
@macbless
@MIW01

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Macbless · 08/08/2019 08:46

Morning!
I’ve been a little quiet on here as we are without internet or phone signal in our new house and work has been too busy to spend time on MN in the day 😬
@larrydavid I temp and find it helpful to have a better idea of actual ovulation. I’m still getting to grips with OPK and at least temps going up confirms that I am ovulating. The thermometer that @LokiCat recommended definitely looks good. You do need to have one that goes to two decimal places or it’s hard to work out the exact date.
@whatsthecraic91 sorry about AF but hopefully this month will bring the positive!
Xx

ELW85 · 08/08/2019 08:54

@Larrydavid - I’m very well thank you! Looking forward to a date night with DH tomorrow and then a rare weekend together, so I couldn’t be happier!

Thermometer wise, I can’t recommend the Bongmi Femometer enough - @LokiCat pasted a link to it.
It’s really sensitive and does all you need, and the app features like interpreting your OPKs are fantastic!
@LokiCat - I’m really pleased you’re happy with yours! I do feel like I should be on commission for them but I promise I don’t work for them, haha!

When you record a BFP, it turns into a pregnancy app too which is helpful, but I’ve stopped temping now as I was just reading far too much into it!

Happy Thursday everyone :)

flossy12 · 08/08/2019 09:25

@LokiCat I was the exact same!! Said we wouldn't try this cycle due to certain circumstances but that all went out the window 😅 and last few days I've been symptom spotting like crazy even though I'm trying to be all cool 😎

Maria90 · 08/08/2019 11:53

@LokiCat currrently waiting for the ttw, obviously I know it's very early days but doesn't stop me from hoping 😂 af due this week too, I've got all the symptoms but no sign of it just yet

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 12:44

Ladies some advice please!!

Spotting Monday/Tuesday - like literally a couple of times after the toilet.

Yesterday afternoon I though AF was here, a lot of blooo when I wiped, haven’t even marked a pad & have had nothing since. Now I am thinking this isn’t AF? Really unusual for me to spot like this and when AF starts she starts with a good flow.

Should I take a test again? My body is all over the place I don’t know what’s happening!!

Sunshine8888 · 08/08/2019 13:28

@whatsthecraic91 that’s strange! is the blood bright red or more brownish?

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 13:37

@sunshine8888 it’s was all like dark brown discharge until last night were it was like really dark red and I thought it was AF but it’s gone again, don’t know what to think!

Lemonysherbet · 08/08/2019 13:54

Thanks for the love ladies. Still feeling meh. Works so stressful. Must just be my mid cycle moodiness taking over.

Tfif tomorrow!!!

flossy12 · 08/08/2019 15:45

Well I'm definitely expecting AF imminently, my cramps have just started up and have been going for about 10 mins now

Ahh well always next time 😩😩

Kiza · 08/08/2019 16:04

@whatsthecraic91 sorry to say but it could be AF? The last few months I've had the same where once it happened for like 10 days and I never had it before but now it's happened the last 3 cycles and each time it turned it AF. Fingers crossed for you it isn't though.

@Larrydavid I know when doing SMEP it advises to DTD for 3 consecutive days after a positive OPK , I'm guessing that's to cover all bases in case the OPK was slightly off. If you're still getting EWCM then keep DTD! Exhausting at times though 😆

I'd love to temp but I wake up frequently in the night to pee so wouldn't get an accurate reading. I also use Femometer only to upload photos of my OPKs to catch how long I peak for (sometimes 2 days) and how long I remain high for also.

@Lozzlepop Florence and the machine sounds ace! Love that woman!

I'm flying up to Aberdeen tomorrow (used to live there) to catch up with some friends but not looking forward to the thunderstorms they're gonna have! ⛈

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 16:09

@Kiza this is the first time this has ever happened to me so I really don’t know what to think! Gonna rest on Saturday morning again to rule it out. How did you log these types of AF, did you take the first day of spotting as CD1?

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 16:09

*test on Saturday

Makingawish · 08/08/2019 16:11

Hi all! I promised I'd post this today for everyone who loves a line pic. This was yesterday afternoon at 10DPO x

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whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 16:20

@Makingawish 😍 congratulations that’s a great line!!

LokiCat · 08/08/2019 16:30

@Macbless congrats on your new house!! Hope you have everything sorted soon. Must be so nice to be moved in!

@ELW85 haha thanks lovely, it was a great recommendation! Your date night tomorrow sounds great, what are you guys up to? Enjoy some well deserved time together tomorrow night and over the weekend :) ❤️

@flossy12 haha my personality doesn't allow me to relax and just go with the flow. I have to be controlling over TTC as well. Sorry to hear cramps have started - i still have everything crossed for you!

@Maria90 hope AF doesn't show up and you get a positive :)

@whatsthecraic91 I don't want to get your hopes up, but could it be implantation bleeding? As I know you weren't completely sure when you had ovulated.. Fingers crossed it's a positive sign.

@Kiza Hope you've been feeling better? Have a great time with your friends, sometimes that's just what you need to get out of a funk! Hope the thunderstorms stay away though.

@Makingawish What a beautiful line for 10dpo, congrats again! What was your DP's reaction to the light box?

So been having a feel for my cervical position today, it was quite high that I could hardly feel it and really soft.. hope that's a good sign! Still have very sore boobs, as well (as you can see my attempts to stop symptom spotting is going well!). So glad it's Friday tomorrow!!

Maria90 · 08/08/2019 16:34

@LokiCat Thank you! I'll keep you updated 😊 xx

@Makingawish Omg congratulations! Beautiful line! I bet you're over the moon xxx

Makingawish · 08/08/2019 16:58

@whatsthecraic91 @Maria90 @LokiCat thank you! I couldn't believe how strong it was for 10DPO in the afternoon too! DH was made up! He said he already had a feeling because my boobs felt different. I was like "do they?! News to me!" Still feels very surreal atm! 😊🤞

Sunshine8888 · 08/08/2019 17:03

@Makingawish huge congrats!

Sunshine8888 · 08/08/2019 17:06

@LokiCat I’ve been trying to feel for cervical position as well and monitor CM changes but I just have no clue! What is odd is that I’ve had an insanely high sex drive the last three days, I’ve never known anything like it! Like actual tingles down there 🙈 what is going on?! On CD22 and totally confused 😐

flossy12 · 08/08/2019 17:25

@LokiCat AF is already here 😢😩 on to cycle 4 we go x

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 17:31

@LokiCat suppose it could be implantation bleeding, I haven’t DTD since 28th July though don’t know if that makes a difference! Going to wait til Saturday to retest, if it’s BFN I’m going to take this as a super light period!

Larrydavid · 08/08/2019 17:49

@LokiCat @ELW85 thanks for the recommendation- I've ordered one! It arrives tomorrow. It'll be good to pinpoint exactly when I'm ovulating! Enjoy your london tourist day lokicat!

@ELW85 Date night sounds good! What do you have planned?

@Lozzlepop I have a half day tomorrow too - I'm so looking forward to it! I'm good - feeling a little deflated with ttc but I know it'll pass as soon as I'm properly into next cycle. It's definitely a bit of a rollercoaster. Enjoy Florence! I love seeing her live!

@Macbless thank you! Going to throw EVERYTHING at it this month! Only got a few more months to catch - if we don't we'll have to pause for a bit so I can fit into a wedding dress!

@Kiza We did it for an extra day when I saw EWCM - we were also swimming a lot. I read somewhere that you should swim during fw though of course that could be nonsense (or I washed them all away 🙈🙈🙈) Enjoy Aberdeen!

@whatsthecraic91 hopefully testing again on the weekend will give you some answers!

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 18:05

@sunshine8888 - I go like that sometimes, not every month tho it’s a really weird feeling isn’t it! Like you can’t sit still 🙈😂

Kiza · 08/08/2019 18:09

@whatsthecraic91 when is AF due? I noted mine down as spotting rather than first day of period as my period came on properly around the right time but the 10 days of ultra light spotting beforehand was so worrying!

@LokiCat thanks, definitely looking forward to a change of scenery!
@Larrydavid washed them away in the pool 😆🤦🏼‍♀️

whatsthecraic91 · 08/08/2019 18:51

@Kiza she was due on the 3rd/4th August!!