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Sudden urge to have another child

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mumofone2818 · 08/07/2019 11:43

I dont feel like this is a faze i'm going through or maybe i am - opinions please!

I have a DD aged 17 months and over the last week I have been so broody at wanting to add to our family!! OH says he doesnt know if he wants more children & I have simply asked him to think about it as if the answer is a definite no then i can get it out my system and stop thinking of it!

Grew up in a family of 6 of ehich 4 were kids and would love DD to grow up with a sibling to always have around, I loved this anout my childhood & so did OH.

I would like to have another child before DD turns 4 so there isnt a big age gap, but would love to try again just now! Has anyone else has this sudden urge and did they go ahead with it?

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PatrickMerricksGoshawk · 08/07/2019 11:55

Have you discussed in the past how many children you both want?
You're not unreasonable to want another, but I don't think it's something you should do on a whim. Maybe sit on the idea for a few weeks or months and see if you still feel the same. Especially if your partner isn't 100% up for it.

mumofone2818 · 08/07/2019 12:55

Growing up I always wanted a big family (3+ kids) but OH doesnt want many more but said in the future he would have one more child but that would be it & i'm happy with this, 2 children is better than none! I spoke to him about it at the weekend but he kept laughing it off even when I was telling him I was being serious. I said it doesnt need to be right now i mean ideally i would like to fall pregnant when DD turns 3 at the latest so we still have a long time before that happens! I didnt grow up an only child so i dont know if they wish they had siblings or are happy to be the only child.

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