Feeling like it's never going to happen again..

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Don't mean to be such a pessimist but tonight I just feel like I've lost it... we had a miscarriage in March and I just feel so resentful at the fact it happened to me. AF has just come after being quite late. Cycles are averaging at 35-40 days now and I am just so so disheartened that I feel like giving up. What am I doing wrong? Someone please help me get out of this pity party ☹️

You're not doing anything wrong, your body needs time to adjust. Some take longer than others.

I had a miscarriage in October and still not conceived again and fear it's probably never going to happen but you have to stay positive.

Also some days it just becomes overwhelming and you need to take time for yourself and tomorrow is a new day.

❤️

@Michellebops thank you so much. I've been trying to take time out for myself the past few days, because this journey really is so hard. I have my fingers crossed for us both xxx

I’ve just my BFP exactly a year after having a miscarriage. It took about 6 months for my cycles to settle down though.

We thought it was never going to happen again, we even got a fertility referral from the doctor last month!

Good luck, you will get there 😊

@Addicted89 so happy for you! Congratulations. Hopefully I'll be as lucky as you soon. Thanks for the reassuring message 😊 wishing you a lovely, healthy pregnancy xx

I am so sorry for your loss and I understand how you feel. Do not give up! I had a miscarriage last June (2018) and I felt exactly the same. When I look back now even though I desperately wanted to be pregnant again, I don’t think my head was in the right place. We tried for months afterwards until hubby had a hernia op and then I fell pregnant again in March. I am now 19 weeks. I won’t lie, because of the m/c this pregnancy has been a complete head f**k and I’ve worried the entire time.
Keep trying but also remember your body and mind need time to heal. So be selfish, do things that make you relaxed and happy. The body doesn’t function properly under stress and when the time is right it will happen. Big Big virtual hugs to you OP 💐

Thank you @LouH1981 for your lovely message. I'm so sorry that you've had to experience MC it's truly the worst thing in the world. I'm so happy that you've managed to conceive again and wishing you a great, healthy pregnancy. You're definitely right about saying to take time out. Me and DP have just booked a holiday and intend to chill right out 😊 thank you x

Sorry to hear about your MC. I also MC in march this year and found that pregnacare conception helped to regulate my BBT a little (dunno if you do temp) but my temps went really low then average and found the helped. Might of been a complete coincidence but maybe worth a shot ?

Good luck !

Thank you @Sparkle0109 sorry to hear about your MC too. Definitely worth a shot, I've heard a few people mention this now so will defo give it a go 😁xx