Someone please talk some sense in to me!

[MorgenMuffel]

Recent NC but regular reader / previous poster.

Been TTC #1 for 16 months. Initial checks for both me and DH all came back fine. Got initial gynae appt for further tests later in the month. AF due tomorrow but for some reason I have convinced myself that I'm pregnant. I know logically that I am not but can't stop thinking I am. Going to be so upset when AF arrives tomorrow and more so than my usual default status of just thinking "not this month".

Someone please talk some sense in to me so I can prepare for AF to come!

Hi OP 😊

Sorry to hear you’re feeling like this! What makes you think that you might not be? There is always a chance until AF shows her ugly face xx

Thanks for taking the time to talk to a crazy lady @rightnow1245 🤣

No reason to think I would be. We've done the same this cycle as all the others and no luck so far, and all my usual pre AF symptoms. Guess just hoping I was one of the lucky ones that falls just before getting treatment lol.

At least my appt is this month so things will be moving forward

As I always say, it ain't over until AF sings! Just because you've done the same as other cycles, doesn't mean that this one won't have a different outcome.

Thanks @bezalelle. You're right, especially as all tests ok so far. Just trying to not irrationally get my hopes up too much i guess so it's not to disappointing. Some positive thinking can't hurt

Well I’ll be putting you in my thoughts and hopefully this is your lucky month.. definitely to have some positive thoughts doesn’t hurt either.. but totally get that you wouldn’t feel great about it.
Are you usually on time with AF?

Thank you @rightnow1245, so kind 😊 generally between 26 and 29 days, tomorrow will be CD28 so let's hope I get to the end of the weekend with no sign of AF

MorgenMuffel I really have got my FX for you! When will you POA if AF doesn’t show? X

@rightnow1245 morning I'll wait until the weekend...think I've got a cheapy somewhere so won't be that sensitive. Plus hate the double whammy of a BFN and then AF showing! FX

Thanks for the comment on the other thread 😊 yeah good idea hopefully you’ll get your BFP this weekend 😊 that would be amazing! X

No sign of AF yet but a lot of stabbing pains in my stomach so feels like she is on her way. Still keeping everything crossed I can join you in the bfp stakes though!

MorgenMuffel Well that’s still a good sign AF isn’t here 😊 do you normally get pains before AF? Yeah I really hope you can too 😊😊😊😊🙏🙏

@Rightow1245 sadly not to be, AF turned up this afternoon. Got some prosecco to drown my sorrows! Hope everything goes smoothly for you xxx

Sorry sorry to hear that! Defo treat yourself and hopefully you’ll get some good news next month xx

I was feeling the same a week before AF was due. Went to my GP to talk about fertility issues, sanitary towel in as I just had that feeling AF could woosh in any minute.

Little did I know, I'd already conceived at that point! 3 days later I got my BFP. Feel dreadful for wasting the doctor's time!

@rightnow1245 thank you. Have appt with fertility specialist this month so feeling positive things are progressing. How are you feeling?

@sheep congrats on your BFP! Talking to a gp when you have concerns is never a waste of time

MorgenMuffel so glad you have your appointment soon! Do you have to wait much longer? Hopefully they can get the ball rolling quickly for you 😊

@sheep congrats on your BFP 😊

@rightnow1245 it's on the 30th so not to long now. Starting to get a bit nervous over what to expect

MorgenMuffel not to long to wait then! Hopefully you’ll get the answers you need! Defo check back in a let me know how you get on x

How did your appointment go yesterday MorgenMuffel x