July bus

[mumof1hants]

Anyone else want to jump on board the July bus? AF has just arrived for me after being 2 days late!

Anyway here's my info:

TTC: #2
Cycle: 3
Age: 37
CD01
AF/BFP due: 3rd July

Hoping this is our lucky month! Fingers crossed for everyone x

@Hannah1925

I came on here to ask exactly the same thing. I'm about 4 dpo and have been experiencing strong period cramps. Tiny bit of pink cm but no other bleeding etc.
Let me know how you get on!

Good Morning Thank you for all the support. It really helps to talk on here I think I had too much wine 3 glasses and today I feel a bit hungover haha. Looking forward to the concert tonight and a few cocktails with the girls. Going to throw myself back into the gym and healthy eating then Monday and have a dry July and hopefully get a BFP at the end of July as an early 30th Birthday pressie

@Abi58 Good luck in Docs today. Did you take another test this morning?

@mumof1hants How are you this morning?

@mommato3 You can only do your best every month and if it doesn't happen that month just know It will happen!!!! xxx

@LatteLover12 Hopefully July will be our month. How long did it take you to conceive your first 2? xx

@Sophieb15 well deserved though! (The wine not the hangover 🙈)
Hope you have an amazing time! Who are you going to see tonight?
🤞🏻 for your bfp in July 😁💕

Yeah I caved and did a cb digital 'pregnant 1-2' 🥰😍😁 won't let me upload a pic though 😩
Got drs in half hour but I'm starting to let myself get excited. Provided af doesn't show and tests stay ok I'm going to tell my husband tomorrow night 😁

@Abi58 I'm really looking forward to it!! Its a Dj called Jenny Green and she play all the old dance songs with an orchestra. It's funny because I've said from the start in January to my mom that I bet you I will get a nice birthday surprise and it will happen that month so hopefully i've been right all along.

I think you should get excited. Ah the digi is the best those words showing up have to be the best moment of my life so far along with my little Girl being born.
Let me know how you get on. You prob won't get results until next week. Are you going to do something special to tell him?
What happened you as I said before happened my friend she had a chemical then got pregnant the following month and she has her 20 week scan next week so you will be fine

Are you going to stay on mumsnet so we can know how you progress through?

@Abi58 @GingerRogers84 my nipples are really sore as well. The cramping was all around lower ab and my groin area, top of thighs. Obviously too early for implantation but maybe I ovulated late? I had a blob of ewcm last night sorry for detail. What's going on?

@Abi58 & @Sophieb15 AF isn't here yet but I'm 100% certain she will be. Woke up at 5am to period cramps and couldn't get back to sleep. Been quite emotional this morn. It's just so disheartening x

@Abi58 that’s it Abi and the hubby doesn’t mind at all 😋 good luck with the docs fingers crossed 🤞 for you

@Sophieb15 that sounds great!
That would be an amazing birthday present 🤞🏻

I know I literally danced around 😂🙈

Ok I may have got slightly emotional at the app and he said they don't normally do it but he would 🙈 so got a blood test at lunch time and another Monday morning 🤞🏻 he was so lovely ☺️

Yes he's wanted amug with our catonnit for ages so I've got a heat changing mug with our cat on but on the back (on the cats back) it says youre going to be a daddy 😁 will give him the present then when the hot water fills it and he turns it 😁

Ah hopefully I do feel more relaxed now 😁 although now debating if I should tell him after I get the results now 🙈

Of course I am ! 😁

@Hannah1925
I have no idea what's going on. I've had a slightly heavier bleed today but it's more brown than anything and it hasn't required more than a panty liner!
With my first pregnancy I only had cramps near my expected period and then got a positive test so this is new territory.
Fingers crossed for us all!

@mumof1hants I know exactly how you feel every month it doesn't happen you feel disheartened. Did your OH book your meal out? Try enjoy the weekend and then just think it's not long until the DTD starts again. I'm going to just DTD on the day of my static and the 2 days after this month because the getting stressed about having to get in the BD is not good for my stress levels. I'm going to try be way more relaxed this month and concentrate on other things.

@Abi58 I'm so happy for you you should tell him today!!! Is he at work? That idea is great too he's going to be soooo happy. xxx

@Hannah1925 our bodies do strange things 🤷🏻‍♀️

@mumof1hants you're not out til she arrives 💕🤞🏻

@PeanutButter19 haha 😉

@Hannah1925 @GingerRogers84 When you are TTC your body plays games with you

I normally have the blob of EWCM a day or 2 before I get my positive OPK so that's weird you got it now?

The bleeding could be from Ovulation. Some ppl have a small bleed after O.

Hey @Sophieb15 it took me a year with DS1 then a year with the next which I lost at 12 weeks. Then I lost another and was v poorly, needing lots of treatment so I lost count how long for DS2! I think 5 years with lots of drama along the way!

I'm 37 now though & I'm worried I've left it too late. I swore I'd never go through it again but here I am. Madness!

@LatteLover12 I'm sorry you had such a hard time. I bet your so grateful to have the 2 you have. 37 def isn't too late it just might take a bit longer. Ladies these days have children up to 50!!

And Age means nothing because I was off the pill since I was 23 TTC DC1 i didn't do OPKs and the BD wasn't as much as we should have done but it still took us 3 years.

My doc is so nice though and because i have healthcare through my OH work we can get all the tests done when we want to. I'm going to give it one more month which is 6 months actively trying and doing OPKS and i'm going to go for a scan to make sure I don't have a cyst or Endo or anything else going on and then get OH tested too. I'll be happy then to know that if there's nothing wrong we are just unlucky each month so far.

Do you feel like you did all the BD at the right time last month?

Hi all, please can I join? First post but been reading for a while.

Age: 33
TTC: #1
Cycle: 3
CD: 7
AF/BFP due: 21st July

Had several positive tests a couple of weeks ago, but then bleeding last weekend. Doctor now confirmed early miscarriage / chemical pregnancy so about to start trying again in cycle 3.

@GingerRogers84 it's could be from the egg being released I cramp from about 2/3 dpo for 2/3 days because of it

@Sophieb15 your relaxed approach sounds good! Something I've read (not sure how true it is) is about how the more aroused/romantic it is it has a good effect (something gross sounding about the cervix gulping 😂🙈) so maybe be relaxed and try to just have fun when you dtd 😁🤞🏻🙈

Eek I haven't got the mug yet it's ready for collection but I might not be able to get it until tomorrow 🙈 has 1st blood test 🤞🏻

Welcome @Fern789 sorry for your loss 💕 I had a chemical /early miscarriage last month. Sending you hugs and wishing you a sticky baby! 🤞🏻

Work colleague just confided in me that she’s pregnant. I cried. Happy for her, but that’s not why I cried.

It was an accident.

I like her a lot so I AM happy for her. But then people who get pregnant “by accident” can go themselves.

I’m not sure how long I can bear this process!

I put asterisks in my last post that haven’t published. They can go sod themselves. And then sod off. Let’s put it that way

@wannabemama0812 bless you! My husband came home the other day to say his colleague told him she was pregnant, but was an accident. I cried too and I don't even know the woman 😩

I haven't been here in a few days and you guys have been busy chatting!
10 dpo today and I got this on a FRER

Thanks @Sophieb15 it was incredibly hard but thankfully time has helped wipe some of the memories out! I definitely feel lucky with my two!

I think out of the 9 cycles we've had, we've timed things right 5 or 6 times as DP was working away for most of last year.

I've not given up hope yet but as each month passes I feel a little sadder which I'm surprised about as it was really for DPs benefit that I went through all this again (this will be his first).

Fingers crossed for a July BFP!

Hi ladies please can I join af just turned up today so on the July bus I go x

Agh! @MissMooMoo congratulations!!

Welcome along @mrssunshinexxx 😊

@mumof1hants I feel you
I've been crying a lot today been home alone too think that's made it worse just got in the shower sat down and let the tears come
It probably sounds pathetic to some but I feel so sad about it I just want it to be my turn I'm young healthy stopped drinking eat well
Urgh hoping July will be the one for a lot of us ! X