May bus cont....

[Paddypaws91]

Hi everyone

The 'May bus' thread is overflowing, here's a fresh new thread 👍

Keep the BFPs coming 😍

AF due today 🤷🏼‍♀️ no symptoms so far though usually have bad bowels (tmi) the couple days before but nothing, just a waiting game now, probably missed OV day aswell 🤦🏼‍♀️

@mrssunshinexxx

Fingers crossed that’s a good sign!!

@Paddypaws91

I’ve also never done temping but there is also a dip just after day 20 and I believe implantation can cause another dip? I would just keep monitoring as it’s the first cycle of measuring and if you don’t get a bfp (🤞🤞🤞) then you have more data for next cycle!!!

@Tamalama

I’m in the same boat - stomach cramps last night and a bit this morning. Due Friday 😔

Totally agree with all the comments about how rude it is when people ask/talk about getting pregnant without invitation! Had it twice in the last week and I know my MIL is just gagging for me to have a baby!

@flossy12

Totally know what you mean about the bowels 😂 hopefully it’s a good sign you don’t feel that way!

If af doesn't come today or tomorrow I may allow my self to get a little excited because I am usually like clockwork x

@mumofbun I know! My sister is just the same 😂👏🏼 just going to hang on till Monday before I test again though, saves the disappointment as it gives AF a time to show up

@flossy12 Haha I'm totally the same with my bowels 😂

When I had my dd 2.5 years ago I fell pregnant within 3 months of coming off the pill. I went back on the pill once she was born. I came off it again in November and fell pregnant the following month but had a mc 5/6 weeks later.

I went back on the pill again as we weren't sure when to try again, but I came off it again after a month or so. I've had two cycles now of ttc. I don't know if the mc, being on the pill and coming off it again is having an affect on conception at the moment.

I worry about my age too as I'm 39 in December...

I have have af symptoms but my boobs feel more sensitive than they usually do when I had af whilst on the pill, and sensitive boobs was a sign when I got pregnant last December... who knows 🤷‍♀️ it's a waiting game that seems to go on forever...

@Tamalama fingers crossed then!! I totally had symptoms for the last week but they seem to be fading now so don't think we've caught at all 🤦🏼‍♀️ just waiting to see how long this cycle is as it's first after coming off the pill

@Tamalama

i know that AF on the pill is not really the same as it's just a withdrawal bleed - my symptoms were completely different on the pill to how they are now! Much more intense since i came off them.

I think probably your hormones are a bit all over the place due to your circumstances - just give it time and try not to stress, 39 isn't that old in terms of having children these days. It might make things a little harder but plenty of people go on to have children right up to their early 40s!

@flossy12

Same to you about giving it time if you're just off the pill - i don't think i got back to normal regarding cycle for at least 6 months! Then all the glorious cramping returned!!

My sister also managed to really upset me one time - she'd had a few and prodded me in the stomach and said "i hope there's a baby in there" and i knew for a fact there wasn't/felt particularly fat at that point in time!

@mumofbun yeah I'm not stressing for the first few months, it took my friend 6 months to conceive after the pill! I'm just one of those I like to know the plan 😂

@flossy12

Yeah I’m the same just having to tell myself not everything can be planned!!

@mumofbun yes that's true! 😊

I had my dd a month before I turned 36 and I was classed as geriatric! How rude! 😂😂

@Tamalama I am 39, if anyone calls me geriatric I'm going to slap them. You'd think they could use a better term. Maybe just older mother??! It's not difficult!

@tisonlymeagain lol, I know! I was so offended!!

@tisonlymeagain

My mum was 38 when she had my sister and wasn’t ever called geriatric as far as I know 😂😂

Feeling horrible today - bloated, fat and irritable. Just had a fight with dh. Af must be on her way!

13dpo and another bfn 😕 I've got a headache today which I usually get before af. Due on tomorrow ☹️

How's everyone else getting on?

@Tamalama due AF yesterday but no sign so far, not sure my cycles are what flor predicted though, did a test on Tuesday but BFN too

@Tamalama I was due yesterday and nothing so far and no signs other than I weighed myself this morning and I'm heavier which always happens at the time of the month haven't tested since Tuesday morning when I was 12 dpo

@flossy12 I think we have the same dates I was due yesterday too it's so nerve racking

@flossy12 @mrssunshinexxx according to flo I was due yesterday too and I was in a foul mood all day! But by my reckoning I’m actually due tomorrow so the same as you @Tamalama

All signs pointing towards af arriving so I’ve not got much hope!

@mrssunshinexxx yeah I know, feel like if I test I'll jinx it

Hey ladies

Af has literally just started so that's me on the June bus fee ok about it actually. Hope you all get your bfp v soon x

@mrssunshinexxx Sorry to hear that but I'm glad you're ok. Af is due tomorrow and I'm pretty sure that I'll be hopping on the June bus too. My gut feeling for this month isn't very hopeful as I have a lot of af symptoms 😕

@Tamalama thank you well I hope you are wrong but if you are not I'll see you in the June bus.

So af is due today. Have some symptoms but I'm not feeling too bad at the moment. Decided not to test today though as I feel it will be a wasted one. I think I'll test on Sunday if I don't come on by then. Good luck to everyone testing this weekend!

@Tamalama yes hold out for a couple of days if you can x