Hi Rahrah,
Have just seen this post of yours:-
"My hospital is massive and have an independent womens hospital, however the antenatal care is pants. The consultant I see is actually the medical director of the womens hospital and heads up CRM. To be honest if the IUI does not work we will be going private for a second opinion. My Obs & Gynie consultant that I had when I was pregnant reckons I was showing up to many indicators for there not to be a problem, however he ran some tests and could not find anything either, but I have not seen him since we lost the baby and he conducted a review meeting with us and told us not to come back to him again until we were pregnant".
So this man (medical director, CRM is he a cons gynae?).
Think you're wise to consider another opinion. If you do go private you need to be cautious. Not all private treatment is good, some of it is infact very poor as well as being expensive. Do your researches carefully before parting with your hard earnt cash. BTW if you find a cons gynae in the private sector that also does NHS work this can be seen as a measure of competance.
"PCO - I have been given one scan by the fertility consultant internally and he said it was marginal that i had PCO".
Marginal, sigh. The cystic follicles with PCO can disappear - only to be replaced by further cystic follicles. You may have been scanned at a time when the follicles were smaller.
"I then went for a private scan (which got the other consultants back up) and he said I had PCO and could do with some clomid as I was on CD20 and the eggs did not look particularly big and I only had one really good egg that month and he would of expected to have seen some more slightly smaller eggs. (does this make sense)
Yes. However, some of the cystic follicles are very small and are thus not easily visible. Did your ovaries appear larger than normal (walnut) size?. If so this is another indicator of PCO.
"However he did say the clomid would speed up me getting pregnant but if I left it naturally he can not see why it would not happen, but might take longer... why would he say this??".
Think he may have been getting ahead of himself here. Clomid also may not speed up you getting pg that's the problem. If you have PCO some of these cystic follicles contain hormones; these follicles that pump out hormone serve to affect ovulation further. Clomid also encourages LH to be produced; if your levels of this hormone are high to start with then you don't need more!.
Clomid may or may not be successful. I know of both successes and failures whilst on it. If clomid was given you would need to be monitored closely whilst on it with blood tests and ultrasounds. It encourages the ovaries to work harder.
Any other questions just ask
Attila