BFP a few mins ago....happy and terrified!

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I am in disguise for now because i haven't told DP yet.

I got a bfp on a tesco test a few mins ago and i am so so happy but at the same time i am terrified! My last pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage and i am so worried that it could happen again. I feel sick already which was one of the reasons i did the test as i have irregular periods so no idea when i should be due. I didn't have ANY symptoms last time.

I want to run around telling everyone my news but i would be so gutted if i then had to tell them i had miscarried again. Would you rather know that someone was pregnant and then be told they had miscarried or would you just rather not know?

AM shaking i am so pleased and scared!!

Congratulations!

Its more about you would you like the support of your family as you have said your worried?? it doesnt matter weather others will want to know is weather you want to tell them x

Good luck with it here is to your March baby x

Congratulations!

I've been in the same situation as you and now have a beautiful DD! Enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can. Go to the doctors and ask about a dating scan.

oh congratulations...I can understand your mixed feelings - wishing you a wonderful and stress free pregnancy

Agree - it's what you want and need that counts - not everyone else!

Congratulations! It really is up to you whether to tell people or not - you only need to worry about yourself!

hijack - hi red

aww congratulations

well, i didn't have the support of my family when i miscarried. I think i would have if i had asked for it but i hid away.

Am worried now because i have been cramping, and i thought AF was on the way on friday so i wore a tampon...oh god this is going to be so worrying! You would think i was a first timer!!

I was never so sure I was getting my period as when I was PG

Congratulations

Congratulations.

Fantastick news from the phantom pee'er! Congratulations.
I was in exactly the same situation as you (mmc then preg again) and couldn't tell a soul, but it is totally up to you. I was aware that as this would be the first GC on both sides of our family, the reaction would be one of wild excitement and I couldn't face the prospect of telling and then having to dissapoint everyone if I misscarried again.
Am due in 6 weeks, so am dealing with hugely over-excited GPs!! Good luck!!

First of all many congrats!

It's only natural to be scared even if you hadn't had a m/c, but even more so that you have.

But that doesn't mean this pregnancy will end up in m/c does it, so tell yourself that thousands of women have had m/c and gone on to have a baby.

My friend just m/c at 17 weeks and I knew at 5 wks when she found out and she has a history of m/c but, even so, it was wonderful to share in her joy for the short time she was pregnant.

So personally I'm glad she told me and I could support her when she lost the baby, because if she hadn't told me I would still have known something was up when she lost it and found it more difficult to help.

But don't even think about that! Think +++++++ yippee

But I understand your reticence in telling everyone - I'm sure you want to shout it from the rooftops!

thank you for all messages.

Can come out of hiding now as i have told DP. He took it quite well. It wasn't entirely planned but not exactly unplanned either.