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Jamie1198 · 14/02/2019 23:41

Hello, so I'm at uni studying biomedical science, I have 2 years out of 4 years left. I am on track for a 2:1 or 1st. I am hoping to do either do a masters in teaching or biostastics after both to msc/PhD will take 1-2 years. Then I have been told minimum 2 years for maternity leave but I don't want it to impact my career so I can never progress from 25-35k. I have been living with my partner 3 yearsthis month, I am 20 years old he is 21. His views about marriage babies ect always change and one day he's alright with it next day he freaks out in general he seems chill with the idea of having one to two children but not marriage which I'm okay with. But I grew up with a big family (five sisters) and I've wanted a baby since I was seventeen I see it's not a wise choice now as my career could skyrocket me to 100k+. I must add I've had two m/c's including twins last September and I'm feeling v confused with life any advice would help, regards c

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physicskate · 15/02/2019 07:34

Of course he freaks out - he's 21!! You've got time. You have other very clearly achievable goals and you say that having a family would disrupt/ make those goals impossible. It's a no-brainer.

I do think broodiness happens when you've been in a relationship for a certain amount of time, so it could be partly that.

I got a cat. It helped the broodiness for a couple of years.

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