6dpo and weeping

[TabsMummy]

I’m 6dpo.. we’ve been ttc for a couple of months, following a pretty horrific miscarriage in the summer.

I’m getting upset at work over silly things that whilst they are niggling shouldn’t really be causing me to go and hide in the toilet and cry.

My boobs are sore... but then last month I had nausea and sore boobs and AF came right on time.

If I was pregnant then I could understand my over sensitivity... but from my understanding my body can’t be producing any hormones to make me act this way? I do always get angry/upset just before my period but it’s usually a bit later than this & certainly not over work.

Anyone else feeling the same? I’m thinking it must be because I just want to be pregnant and at home looking after a new little life before my body tells me it’s too late. That and the fact that I’ve dropped my usual 6+ coffees a day down to just 2?

Would love to hear from others x

Didn’t want to read and run so just want to offer you a virtual hug xxx

@TabsMummy So sorry to hear about your miscarriage. It is such an emotional roller coaster when ttc & doesn't happen when expected so allow yourself to have moments where you feel upset and angry. I personally would recommend getting a massage/reflexology or even acupuncture. Just something to relax you and keep you from stressing out too much as all that stress can affect the body.

This is my 7th month ttc. Im about 12dpo now and haven't tested for 2 days since I got BFN's. Was in tears this month as well. It doesn't get any easier! Just waiting for AF now. My only other advice is try not to read into symptoms too much as I've done this for 7 months and had every 'symptom' under the sun but then AF shows.

Good luck and hope you get your BFP soon.

Hi 😊 I'm currently at the end of my 3rd month ttc with a bfn last night! AF due in the next day or two. I have been extremely weepy for the last week and even though I usually get emotional before AF it was a lot worse this month so I convinced myself I was pregnant when I'm pretty much sure now that I'm not.

I'm putting down being over emotional to wanting a baby so much and like you I just want to be at home bringing up a little human 😊 I've waited such a long time for this and it's almost unbearable to wait any longer 🙁 I think I get fed up at work because it's not what I want to be doing right now!

It's very hard, sending hugs to you OP 🤗

Thanks for the responses... couldn’t help put check again this morning but still bfn. It’s a bit like buying a scratch card really .. hope you win..

I’m feeling less emotional today. I’ve cut my caffeine down majorely.. my partner is taking every vitamin under the sun & has ordered a home fertility kit, so I’m lucky he listens to me whinge. Signing up here has helped. I really do hope we all manage to conceive soon.

@liveinhope100 - agree with trying not to symptom spot. It’s very hard, though!! Do you chart? The only thing I’ve been doing this month is the OPKs.. last month I relied on my Fitbit fertile window (which appears to be very slightly off) .. I would like to chart but I wake up at completely different times of the day, so it wouldn’t work.

@Lozzy25 - it’s amazing how quickly the first two weeks of the cycle go, huh? The rest is just a looooong drag. I think I’m fed up at work for a few reasons but this sure isn’t helping. Hope your AF is a no show 😘 x