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TTC - Return to the mothership 2

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EllieG · 26/06/2007 21:55

Where is everybody? I tried to post and it was too full....I dunno, you go away for a few days and everyone buggers off (friendless emoticon)

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derah · 26/06/2007 22:24

So what's this thread about then?

spugs · 26/06/2007 23:02

Hello, I think this is the ttc after mc thread. Could be wrong though

alittlebitshy · 27/06/2007 09:17

yup it is indeed the ttc after m/c!!!
I don't think any of us could think of as good a title as mrsmc's now famous "return to the mothership"!!

gillydaffodil · 27/06/2007 09:29

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alittlebitshy · 27/06/2007 09:31

i think we were all too scared to start a new one so were waiting for someone else to do it. Well done ellieg!!!!!!

COME BACK everyone, we neeeeeeeeeeeeeeed you!!!

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EllieG · 27/06/2007 09:43

Heeeellllooooooo (echoing space)

Nice to see some of you at least!
Haven't been around for a bit cos needed a bit of head space, but have had enough of it now!

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ronshar · 27/06/2007 10:28

I spent yesterday searching aimlessly for everybody. I felt all alone.
I was too scared to start my own thread because I thought that another one would be started and I would be left on my own. .

mslucy · 27/06/2007 10:40

I'm newish here and feel a bit of a doughnut.

Feel free to moan away.

ronshar · 27/06/2007 10:54

Welcome mslucy. If you have a look at ttc part one you will soon see that anything goes on this thread.
EllieG, we have missed you. How are you after your time off? Things do get a little heavy dont they.

mslucy · 27/06/2007 11:02

I know it's a real comfort to be here I tell you.

it's such a touchy subject in RL.

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EllieG · 27/06/2007 11:16

A bit better though am feeling a tad weird this week. Work is very stressful and PG supervisor is starting to show and I went home yesterday and cried and cried about losing my baby and not being PG. Felt much better after though, think was cathartic. Haven't been that way in a while and I worry I should be fine now, the MC was in March, so surely I shouldn't still be crying about it at times?
Welcome Mslucy, don't feel like a doughnut, the more the merrier here and all moaning and madness is tolerated (unlike in RL unfortuanately)x

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EllieG · 27/06/2007 11:16

A bit better though am feeling a tad weird this week. Work is very stressful and PG supervisor is starting to show and I went home yesterday and cried and cried about losing my baby and not being PG. Felt much better after though, think was cathartic. Haven't been that way in a while and I worry I should be fine now, the MC was in March, so surely I shouldn't still be crying about it at times?
Welcome Mslucy, don't feel like a doughnut, the more the merrier here and all moaning and madness is tolerated (unlike in RL unfortuanately)x

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EllieG · 27/06/2007 11:17

how strange it posted twice

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mslucy · 27/06/2007 11:22

I had a miscarriage before I had my son.

it was hideous.

I felt like an absolute zombie from Feb 2004 until my birthday (aug).

I hated all pregnant women and used to cringe if I saw one in the street.

Then I just decided I'd had enough of being sad - something snapped inside me I guess - and became pg later in Aug.

It will happen for you too.

Just wish no 2 would hurry up - it's over a year now and I'm 37 next birthday.

alittlebitshy · 27/06/2007 12:53

ladies, i'm going to need you over the next 9 days (counting!!!). Just come out of seeing my lovely counsellor who is going away and i won't see her til a week on friday, and between sat and thurs i won't even be able to text/email her ( i know that sounds a bit odd - but as i've mentioned she is actually somone i know in RL (out of counselling) too - curate's wife.

Just sobbed for about half an hour before i left hers (until her doorbell rang - her next client had arrived ) and feel a bit raw (but all cried out) now.

My task while she is away is to actually try and tell Dh that i am still v much hurting (i have been tryong not to show it esp since the second m/c last week). eeek.

anyhow - now i just sound utterly loopy don't i??????

mslucy · 27/06/2007 13:26

no you sound normal

popsy76 · 27/06/2007 13:56

hi ladies bloody hell was wondering what was going on there
lost everyone and though you must all just have decided to go cold turkey
mad busy at work
still bursting into tears all the time too ellie - so I'm with you there
Still totally buggered up by it all to be honest
hope everyone okay
p.s. PHEW I FOUND YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

ronshar · 27/06/2007 14:20

There is a nursery nurse at dc preschool who I think is due the same time I would have been (Oct). I only really noticed today her beautiful neat bump and I stared at it then realised I was being silly tried to stop but couldnt.
I am getting to the point where I feel it is all my fault. First I cant carry a baby and now I cant get pregnant again. I know it is still early days but when you live with it every day and things just hit you in the face with out warning it makes it so very very hard. I am feeling very down again this week as af due. No sign yet but have OCD testing problem.
So I think we are all helping each other with our individual saddness.

fifilou · 27/06/2007 14:33

ronshar, try not to get upset (easy for me to say I know). My lovely bf had a miscarraige before falling pregnant a second time with her lovely daughter (born 3 wks ago)

I can only say hold on, be strgong, and beleieve in what will be. you will be ok. My bf thought that it would never happen again, she felt so low after mc that i thought i would never see her smile again, but she is smiling now. She smiled the day she found out she was pregnant.

It was the longest pregnancy ive ever known as we knew from day one (she tried right away after her mc) im sorry if im not being very helpful, i just wanted you to know that evrything will be ok in the end, its just shitty now my lovely.

hold your head up, be strong and positive. you will be ok.

fifilou · 27/06/2007 14:36

im hoping i didnt come across as insensitive, i jsut wanted to you to know that things really do work out in the end. Im cd27, its my first month ttc and i know o dont know very much and its early days, but i just wanted to give some love, and share the experiences of my friend.

ronshar · 27/06/2007 14:40

Thank you it was beautiful. Good luck to you to. I hope you wont be here with us for to long. If you know what I mean.

gillydaffodil · 27/06/2007 14:42

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herbaceous · 27/06/2007 14:49

I thought that too, gilly. It's a bit confusing with no MC in the title. There's also the added bonus that you can come and read me ramble on at poor popsy, who was the only one there!

gillydaffodil · 27/06/2007 15:12

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EllieG · 27/06/2007 16:32

I forgive you (goes off to sulk emotion)

Is cool really! didn't see popsy's thread just got a bit worried about where everyone had gone and so wnated someone to find me, which they did.
See you over there y'all x

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