4 days late and still a BFN

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I know it is early days but it is just so hard not to get my hopes up so I am just posting this here to get it off my chest as my OH has heard me say it enough times!

Been actively trying since August and had 3 regular cycles all lasting 25 days. Every month I talk myself in to it that this is my month and spend a fortune on testing always to see a soul destroying BFN!

This month, there is no sign of AF and I am 4 days late but still a BFN! I haven't been able to track my ovulation this month but usually CD15 is the big static smiley. I have none of my usual pre period symptoms but no early pregnancy symptoms either!

It is so frustrating you spend all your life being careful so you don't get pregnant and the minute you start trying it seems an impossible task even when you do everything textbook! I wish I started trying months earlier as I want a big family and naively didn't anticipate it not happening instantly!

Sending good vibes to everyone TTC. It is not a fun time!

I’m in exactly the same boat as you!! I did have a Mc in July so my hormones may still be a bit up and down. But I have had 2 cycles of 28 & 23. I am officially now 4 days late, I was due on Monday just done (27 days). I also have no signs of af coming like I nornally do. I do however feel very tired, hungry emotional and bloated but these are also signs of af so who knows. I tested using FR on Friday and yesterday morning but bfn. I have been advised to wait until a week after af due for a more accurate result. If no af and still bfn on Monday next week I’ll be booking in at docs extremely pissed off! 😢 let me know how it goes for you! Good luck! A lot of women do test negatives at the start aparently xxx

I have my fingers crossed for you OP. I got my BFP on day 5 of being overdue- I tested on 1 and 3 days overdue and they were both negative so it can happen... xx

Babycakes1989 sorry to hear about your MC. Keep me posted on how it goes. Hoping you get that BFP!

mummabubs thank you! It's good to hear success stories, it gives me the hope I need!