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BFP then BFN?!

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CherryO88 · 19/11/2018 06:30

Hi all. Very emotional and hands shaking typing this. We have been through hell, my last pregnancy resulted in TFMR and I delivered my daughter at 24w2d in sept. I was desperate to start trying asap. Got my first AF 5 weeks exactly but did not get a static smiley until CD 23.
At approx 8dpo on Thursday I tested with FRER and got a faint squinter. Tests the next 3 days were even fainter or bfn so I convinced myself I wasn’t. On sat I tested with FMU and to my delight got a BFP straight away, still faint but could see it without squinting! I always like to have it confirmed with a digital. Yesterday morning with FMU I got a ‘not pregnanf’ Panicked and pee’d on a frer and got a stronger line again! So tried to relax and accept that a line is a line etc.
This morning I have gotten up and collected my FMU to use both digital and FRER. BFN both of them. I am distraught, at this stage both should be BFP if I’m truly pregnant. AF should be due today or tomorrow really. Anyone any kind of clue what’s going on or had this happen to them??
I am so emotional and can’t stop crying, so desperate for some joy again!

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CherryO88 · 19/11/2018 06:41

These are Saturday, Sunday and today’s tests.

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whyhaveidonethis · 19/11/2018 07:32

Oh @cherry08 hugs. Sounds like you are having a terrible time at the moment. Did you have negative HCG levels after the birth? It may have been a chemical pregnancy but it's difficult to know. You aren't out until AF shows and it sounds like you ovulated late so it may still happen.

CherryO88 · 19/11/2018 08:00

Thank you @whyhaveidonethis it has been horrific and now this limbo. I had a negative test 2 weeks after delivery. I did spot a lot so had a scan but no rpoc and haven’t had any bleeding in nearly 3 weeks. Fairly sure I did ovulate late, had lots of ewcm and ovulation pain. I just don’t understand why I keep getting positive then negative then positive tests again. I am desperate just to know either way now. AF should be due today or tomorrow, as I’m either 13 or 14dpo. I would love a blood test just to know for sure!

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whyhaveidonethis · 19/11/2018 08:03

its Just so frustrating not knowing. I totally get that. Xxx

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