TTC 4 months now, which I realise isn't long in the grand scheme of things, but DP has low fertility aka only one functional testicle and a low sex drive so I am frustrated to the point of tears already. AF has just arrived and I am devastated. We DTD once and then two days later and looking at my app it appears that I ovulated the day of the second DTD. I couldn't convince him to try every day over my fertile period and didn't want to be a sex pest.
I may be emotional but I am trying to put together a list of everything I can throw at the situation to get a BFP. I want to plan and DO something because I am currently wallowing in a pit of despair.
DP is too relaxed about it and just likes to say that "it'll happen when it happens". He thinks we'll be fine because a decade ago his girlfriend accidentally fell pregnant but miscarried
But it's not that simple, is it? If a normal, healthy, fertile couple only has a 20-25% chance of conceiving in any given month then we have, at most, a 10% chance, right? Plus he's older now!
Anyway back to my list.
I've been doing some research and ordered OPKs already. I was trying to avoid being obsessed but here we are.
I also want to buy pre-seed and Wellman conception vitamins.
I'm already cooking cod, broccoli and wholegrain everything for almost every meal and sending DP in to work with a banana as a snack as I read these things 'naturally' increase sperm count. He doesn't smoke or drink caffeine and rarely drinks alcohol.
What else can I do?
Does anyone have success stories or recommendations/suggestions as to what I can do or try?