Hi guys,
Just wanted some support really. I feel really really down as my partner and our sex life is crap atm. He works 9-6, or 8-4.30 and wakes up quite early, so says he feels tired most of the time and that's why he doesn't have sex, but that it's not that he doesn't want to. When he wanted sex it was at most three times a week, then it went to once. And now it's gone to zero, once ever two weeks instead. Do you guys have any experiences to share?
Btw we don't have children, atm it's just us.
I've been talking to him about it and telling him that I don't really understand it, and that he just needs to make time and prioritise better. Am I wrong in what I'm saying?
For example, he said to me yesterday that we'd have time today to have sex and keep a couple of hours free and that he'd just do a few admin things and then we'd go in the bedroom. But he decided we should see his friend as we haven't seen him for three weeks, but I said to him that that was unfair on me as I've been talking to him about this issue for two weeks - nearly the time we haven't had sex for. He said to me it doesn't matter cause plans change but I said that you told me one thing so why change it.
In relation to TTC this month, I've told him forget it because if we have sex it will just be to make a baby and it will remind me of how it's not possible for us to make time on days that I feel like it. He said he didn't understand this, and that most people just have sex for babymaking, and I just laughed
Am I being reasonable. How can I make him understand better? I think he thinks I'm a sexfuelled freak