TTC baby #1 for 15 months - loosing the will!!

[Barles88]

Hi everyone ,

My husband and I have been TTC for 15 months and have no positive pregancy results . My cycle averages 25 days, my peak ov tests are around cd15 so I have a short ish luteal phase.

We’ve been to the docs and had all the tests under the sun! My husbands test results for his lil swimmers were really good . All my blood results, for the many tests I had, have been good. I have had The HSG dye test which came back great, internal scans - all okay. Etc etc

My next test/scan will look at each stage more closely to see how my egg develops-releases and travels. That will happen after my next af.

Weve taken a variety of supplements, mine including folic acid, fertilaid and the well woman ones .

Just feeling so fed up with it all. I’ve been so positive up until now. There’s only so many child’s parties and baby showers I can face ! I just think when will it be our turn?!

My AF is due today-tomorrow and today I’ve had period pains all day so I am like here we bloody go again!! :(

How/what is everyone else coping/doing to get through it ?

Any advice welcome !! Xx

I won't tell you how long it too my husband and I, but never loose hope, if all is ok medically then i am sure it will happen and I share your frustration and it did happen for me - EVENTUALLY! x

Thank you :) I/we have been positive about it all and said “it’ll be our turn soon.” But it’s just so hard to keep having AF slap you in the face telling you- NOPE it’s not happening .
The fertility doctor said he’s adamant we will get pregnant it may take 3 years . But I just hope I don’t loose hope !
I know so many women are in the boat too. Hopefully others will read this and see we’re not alone in it all x

OP we’ve been trying 18 months, baby #1 Husbands sperm analysis tests were good. I’ve got my ultrasound on Friday. Right now I’m on day 37 with no sign of a period but negative pregnancy tests! So frustrating!

It’s suxh a horrible waiting game . I’m feeling a bit better today. The day AF shows I always feel rubbish .
Hopefully your ultrasound will shed some light . Fingers crossed af hasnt shown her face for good reasons! Fingers crossed for you x