Fed up! Anyone want to join me in a TTC vent?

[mmmgoats]

Feeling really fed up today.
Had a MMC Christmas 2016, followed by a TFMR at 20 weeks late 2017.
No children yet.

Been TTC in as relaxed a manner as possible, and although it's not really been very long I just feel low about it today. I think it's because we have booked a holiday for November so I'm suddenly keenly aware of how close the anniversary of the TFMR is, and for some reason I really wanted to be pregnant again by then - I sort of assumed I would be as our last two times I fell really quickly - and now I just feel fed up.

I know it's silly, nothing to say it won't happen soon, and we've not been properly tracking [just using OPKs] but it's just got to me today. Everyone seems to be pregnant or not long had new babies I guess.

Anyone else feeling a bit fed up?

Hi I understand how you feel.ive 2 dc from a previous relationship been ttc for a year now no such luck. We don't live together so that might be a factor .I'm sure it will happen soon .like you I pretend I'm just not trying .it's crap isn't it .I agree feels like there a a baby boom.

Sorry for your losses, sounds like you've had a tough journey. I'm feeling a bit fed up too this week, I had an early mc and my due date (according to lmp) would have been 23rd Aug and I also never considered that I wouldn't at least be pregnant again by now! Especially as it only took 4 cycles to conceive the first time, but here I am on cycle 13 and nothing since!

There's a good chance you could be pregnant by November, think positive thoughts! Xx

Thanks for joining me in my rant, but sorry to hear you guys are feeling it too :(

Positive thoughts and all the luck to both of you, it's rubbish isn't it!

Sorry for your loss Daisy anniversaries/would be due dates are funny beasts and bit of a rollercoaster of emotion.

Never know ladies we might get pregnant at the same time.im so sorry for both your losses sending huge hugs to you both.i get sad when friends who aren't trying get caught feel a crappy friend for feeling that way.

@mummypeanut ooh hopefully! :D
And I know exactly what you mean, I'm happy for them but it hammers it home that it's not me...

I am also ttc baby no3 with 2 from previous relationship!
We do live together now. We started trying as soon as he moved in. Been together 4 years now and had a long distance relationship in the beginning.

Lol that's how me and oh started out .hopefully soon be living together .I keep telling myself I'm not getting caught because I'm not seeing him when I'm ovulating. My dc1 I tried for a year got told I was infertile then month later was pregnant dc2 tried for a year gave up everything went so bad then found out I was pregnant .my friend had a 1 night stand and got pregnant I felt so sad on the inside it wasn't me but I'm adopted auntie and godmother.