have been ttc for just over two years. Are not actively trying any more iyswim, as dh was diagnosed with low sperm count last August so we kind of resigned ourselves to the fact it probably won't happen, even though gp said that dh is not infertile but has "limited fertility". But we are generally still active around the right times of the month, we just don't do the "gotta do it to get pregnant" thing any more.
Anyway, I am now two days late. Normally when my period is due I have some spotting on the day it's due, then this stops and I get full on af a couple of days later. But so far this month there's been nothing. Also had sore boobs until yesterday, which is normally a sign of impending af but these too have now disappeared but boobs have increased in size and nipples are erect. Not simptom spotting, am sure I'm not pregnant because.. well we've been ttc for two years so it's fairly unlikely really. but...
I have horrendous hayfever. And even though I'm sure I can't be pregnant, I'm still reluctant to take anything for it apart from my beckenays spray. Last night I was sneezing and dh got annoyed and said "fgs go and do a pregnancy test so you can get a negative and then you can take something for your hayfever". I pointed out that I don't have any tests and that although I know it's unlikely, there's still a possibility, after all we did conceive ds - no? to which he replied "well you're not pregnant". Is he psychic? or could it just be that he's beating himself up about this? he does feel that he's responsible for the fact we can't have another baby, but I've never held it against him - after all these things happen.
are your dh's sympathetic when you're late? or are they fed up of this as well now?